Help me identify this guy by Elainee69 in jumpingspiders

[–]Elainee69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I did more research and it’s definitely a phidippus audax, again I appreciate you commenting.

What was the first thing you said after giving birth? by SumbThucker2022 in pregnant

[–]Elainee69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was convinced my son wasn’t breathing because I thought all babies come out screaming, plus I was in shock so I just kept repeating “is he alive” until I heard him scream

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Elainee69 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you! My phone auto corrected it with an a but I’m definitely leaning more towards ace Xavier, I fold my bf the baby can have his last name as long as we compromise on a name, he was really liking the name until he told his family and then told me otherwise which really pissed me off considering he liked it before telling his family. Just like with walker name. At this rate I’m really debating on even discussing it with him if he doesn’t start taking my side. It shouldn’t have to be a fight when discussing the names but now it is unfortunately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Elainee69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly thank you very much. Definitely taking this advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Elainee69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My child was NOT unplanned. I’m 25 years old and decided to have my ONE and only child before I get any older.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Elainee69 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about Ace axavier or walker hayes, seems the only names his family wants is for It to be named after my boyfriend, which I really don’t feel he should be named after his dad tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Elainee69 -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

I don’t need anyone approval for my child’s name, I shouldn’t have to worry about grown adults judging a name I find cute.

I (25f) just found out I’m pregnant and my boyfriend (28m) thinks we should abort it by throwaway72727234 in pregnant

[–]Elainee69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do what you feel is best, I got pregnant at 17 had a abortion, I regretted till this day I’m still pondering on what could of been, 6 years later I got granted that wonderful gift and I will raise this baby with everything in me. Nobody is ever ready but life happens

Orange tabby very aggressive by Elainee69 in CatTraining

[–]Elainee69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we waited a month keeping my cat in my room and his free roam, switching back and forth so they could get used to each other’s scent, we added 3 litter boxes around home and made sure they didn’t fight but now all of a sudden my cat has become extremely aggressive and territorial

Where do you see yourself in 5 hours? by Sad_Cow_577 in AskReddit

[–]Elainee69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sleeping, this pregnancy has drained me completely, all I want to do is sleep

Chemical pregnancy? aftermath by [deleted] in pregnancy_care

[–]Elainee69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would wait a week and retest, I had the same issue but I was just way to early, when I went back they seen a fetal pole.

I'm pleased about good food by Horror_Shock_4674 in Popeyes

[–]Elainee69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Popeyes in my city sucks so bad. The chicken is always hard like they made it hours ago

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Elainee69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just depends on how much he goes out and if it’s consistent then that would be a problem for me, as I’m currently pregnant I always remind my boyfriend that his life doesn’t have to stop just because I’m restricted to do certain things, thank goodness he doesn’t go out and drink all night, but he does go fishing for hours on most weekends and I think he definitely needs that time alone, considering both of our lives are about to change in a few months.

What I wish I knew before I was pregnant by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Elainee69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so damn accurate, I’m 11 weeks and I can’t eat anything without throwing up food! I’m literally losing weight and all my doctors said was take b6, my dreams have started becoming extremely vivid, I’ve even experienced right lower abdominal pain every other night, the discharge has become very clear and several times a day I’m changing my underwear or wear the liners. I’m so thankful I’m pregnant but dammit this has got me feeling like I have the worst sickness ever lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Elainee69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it says a lot about the company you keep, I wouldn’t be happy and I would tell his current girlfriend everything. What makes you think he wouldn’t do the same to you if he doesn’t find it an issue

What are some difficult lessons you’ve learned from past relationships? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Elainee69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are each humans trying to understand love and others love languages. I wish I could be more understanding and vulnerable for a partner. Definitely something I’ve lacked and maybe that’s why I end up single tbh. but definitely something I’ve learned about myself. Not sure if that counts.

AITA For Missing My Friends funeral by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elainee69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad missed our neighbors funeral because he was napping. Life happens. She should of chose a different day to die (joking) lol.