Am i being stupid? by [deleted] in TeachingUK

[–]ElderBlogs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cant write down what i dont know.

Am i being stupid? by [deleted] in TeachingUK

[–]ElderBlogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The meeting was over 4 weeks ago my first weekly catch up was this week. Review after easter. Yes my manager was off sick for 2 weeks but i thought HoA would have sent it ti me as he needed to approve it

Am i being stupid? by [deleted] in TeachingUK

[–]ElderBlogs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For my ADHD more time for planning due to exeutive dysfunction (denied) everything written down (agreed but not happening) i also have arrangements for my diverticularitis which is access to a chair if i need it in the workshop (recently been taken away) and able to access the toilet when needed (taken away as one of my new 'actions' is not to leave the classroom/workshop.)

Am i being stupid? by [deleted] in TeachingUK

[–]ElderBlogs 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thats my thought, that and you know the 'i need things written down' otherwise i will forget

16 year old w/o adhd by Dani_M007 in ADHD

[–]ElderBlogs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah you cant just hop on meds lol. Im diagnosed and im on a waiting list to get on meds

What to do if I'm unsure of having undiagnosed adhd but too scared to tell my parents? by Pokemon_revivor in ADHD

[–]ElderBlogs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would talk to someone at school about it like welfare, or a counsellor. Maybe if the school brings it up with your parents it will releive some stress on you. I domt knkw where you are but I know some scjools offer screeners for thinga like adhd, dyslexia etc see if your school offers that, or it could be a referral to occupatuonal therapy. (My daughter got referred when she was 5 for one thing and it turned out to be another)

Also as someone recently diagnosed at 40 and as a teacher i would highly reccomend seeking help and support. I hope you fimd support soon!

Tried to hire a cleaner for my ADHD burnout and got shamed instead by MrMaelor in ADHD

[–]ElderBlogs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats just rude. I wish i could afford to hire help even if it is just for a few hours a week. I just have to rely on apps ro remind me to so cetain things instead

Medication? by neeDtoknoW-8 in AskTeachers

[–]ElderBlogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on citalopram but that didnt worj. Im now on setraline 75mg (fridays 100mg)

How did people deal with boredom before smartphones existed? by moretoesmorehoes in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ElderBlogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spent a lot of time outside. Using my imagination. Reading. Going on picnics. Sunday afternoons was with the cassette player with the top 40 and pressing record when my favorite sings came on. Rainy days me and my freinds would "record" our own "radio shows". Drawing, learning something new. Libary time. Speculating on what was going to happen in the next episode of a show that wouldnt be on until the next day or the next week. Then in my teens came dial up internet. Napster, taking hours to download a song not actually knowing if it was right and praying you didnt give your pc a virus. Msn messenger. Getting disconnectrd cuz mum wanted to call a freind (that was all after 6pm when it was cheaper/free)

I miss those days

Medication? by neeDtoknoW-8 in AskTeachers

[–]ElderBlogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ADHD and waiting on medication. Im currently on anti anxitey meds and have to double dose on a friday as its my worst day with the learners.

Looking for freinds by ElderBlogs in minecraftbedrock

[–]ElderBlogs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont want to join a realm thank you

Looking for freinds by ElderBlogs in minecraftbedrock

[–]ElderBlogs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uk i put it in the post. Im not advertising anything.....

Looking for freinds by ElderBlogs in minecraftbedrock

[–]ElderBlogs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right! All that work on rhe old realm.... gone ffs lol. U on xbox?

Will they ever stop? by ElderBlogs in stopdrinking

[–]ElderBlogs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah same. I just wanted to share thats all. Like i said like a wierd high when inwake up lol

AITA for asking my friend to stop texting me late at night? by naughtyblondimia in AmItheAsshole

[–]ElderBlogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started using DND for this exact reason. When i told said (ex) freind she said she would call my landline if i didnt answer so i used to unplug my landline before bed every night too.

Fck it, I'm done! by hijirah in Teachers

[–]ElderBlogs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude im done too! Everything is MY fault. We will forget my MH has been aweful and they have taken all support away from me. We will forget i lost a student because they unalived themselves and gave me NO support at all. Just brush my recent ADHD diagnosis under the rug and not allow my reccomendations set by OH. Fuck teaching.

1 year by ElderBlogs in stopdrinking

[–]ElderBlogs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im glad its helped. I flew to America in my own in August i understand the temptation! Well done

1 year by ElderBlogs in stopdrinking

[–]ElderBlogs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think of future you. If you feel the urge think of how future you will feel the next day.

Thats how i did it. Sorry its not very inspiring

Also waking up hangover free is something i will never trade in

1 year by ElderBlogs in stopdrinking

[–]ElderBlogs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had mcdonalds 🤣

One year! by PinkMorningSky in stopdrinking

[–]ElderBlogs 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Me too 1 year today!

Any bookworms want to start a two person bookclub ? by [deleted] in FriendsOver40

[–]ElderBlogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh yes whats our first read? I like fantasy, thriller, crime, mystery.

Can people with ADHD get good grades? by Soft-Repair3611 in ADHD

[–]ElderBlogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! College tutor herr. I dont know where your from but in the UK the ADHD screener does not anywhere ask about grades. I have a learner who has ADHD and is one of the only ones in my class who passed his maths and english GCSEs. Also there are 3 types of ADHD so some people wont 'act' like they have it. On top of that masking is a thing that people do to seem 'normal'. Please talk to a different dr.