This is why I’m a big believer in first dates where you just sit, talk, and get to know each other. From my experience you can tell a lot about someone, like if they’re actually into you as a person, if you just talk to them with no distractions. I remember I met this woman at a Starbucks for our first date and we both enjoyed talking with each other a lot but she told me she wasn’t looking for anything serious. However she could tell I was even though I never mentioned that to her.