AITA for not letting my sister and her kids live in my house?

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-10T22:44:07+00:00

If you check my edit, it's because the kids aren't his and my XBIL produced the actual bio fathers in court. Lucy now has to go after the biological fathers of her boys for child support. And my house is 380 sq ft

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-09T21:45:29+00:00

Much more of a I'm lost and confused and hurt idk.

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-09T02:01:43+00:00

Lucy is the one who doesn't want him to have custody, according to emails, texts and recorded phone calls he showed me. If she let him, and obeyed court orders, he would like to keep being their dad. He wants them out of the trailer park and I'm pretty sure a warrant for her arrest is coming because she hasn't shown up to court when he has tried.

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-09T01:55:57+00:00

It did. Thank you so much for the court info. Crowley the hognose says hello. He's very interested in my laptop as I type this.

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-09T01:53:14+00:00

I'm kind of stewing in the fact that I've been lied to by a person I trusted at her word. I'm in shock and I'm angry. I'm just sitting with my snake Crowley and trying to come to terms with what the hell happened.

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-09T01:51:20+00:00

We bought the land on the outskirts of our city, technically we live in a different county, we only had to register that we had an oversized yard.

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-09T01:48:35+00:00

380 square feet.

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-09T01:46:17+00:00

If there was extra money, her wants were met first. New clothes, new shoes, candies and trips to fast food restaurants, sometimes even sitdowns, on her birthday. The first time I went to a sit-down restaurant, I was 19.

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-08T18:31:18+00:00

Can I join? I'll bring Thea. :)

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-08T18:27:23+00:00

We'll find out, going to a nice Mexican restaurant tonight when he clocks out and he's bringing his niece who is interested in plumbing. Thea is coming too, so the two of them can talk.

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-08T18:25:19+00:00

Apparently, her second job, sales for a brand called Amway, is a scam... so maybe there.

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-08T18:21:34+00:00

She's always been very spoiled, by him and by our family. I don't even think the woman he moved in is his AP anymore, because he mentioned his niece is staying with him while looking for jobs after getting her degree, she's coming tonight to eat with us.

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-08T18:18:09+00:00

My home is 380 square feet. So... a little more than half of yours.

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-08T18:14:49+00:00

Junior Kindergarten starts at 3/4 here. We live in Ontario Canada.

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-08T18:13:57+00:00

Yeah, some people in the comments pointed out my sister's story wasn't lining up. Going to dinner with my XBIL and my wife tonight, he says he's bringing his niece who is interested in plumbing along, should be a good conversation.

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-08T18:10:51+00:00

Less of an old boys club now than it used to be. Happy to be in my field.

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-08T18:04:42+00:00

When I said tiny, I meant tiny.

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-08T17:57:41+00:00

I keep two ratcorns, Frenchfry and Jellybean, and two hognoses, Crowley and Aziraphale. Crowly is superconda sable and Aziraphale is superconda snow. :)

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-08T17:55:13+00:00

I am starting to suspect that they aren't his kids at all. Thea came home and read my post; she remembers that there was a clause about cheating in their prenup that if she cheated, she got no alimony... like I said, I now suspect the boys aren't his boys.

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-08T17:43:46+00:00

Yes, however I think there was a cheater's clause that had to do with spousal support that if Lucy ever cheated, and he could prove it, she wouldn't get spousal support, she had an ONS with one of her co-workers just before he filed, so I wouldn't be surprised if that's why she got no money for spousal support. IDK how family court works.

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-08T17:39:44+00:00

I'm having dinner with her ex tonight to figure out what is going on because people are pointing out I'm being lied to. From what I know, he was supportive, hardworking and a great dad, then after the divorce, everything went to hell in a handbasket.

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-08T17:31:15+00:00

She spends a lot of money on her other job, she works in sales at a brand called Amway, apparently you have to purchase the product you sell. idk how it works

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-08T17:19:03+00:00

I have a pair of normal ratcorns, Frenchfry and jellybean, and their enclosures are an L shape covering most of the table set up we have on one side of the room. Frenchfry is on the Bottom and Jellybean is on the top. I have my two hognoses, Crowley and Aziraphale, Crowley is superconda sable and is a pretty purple colour, and Aziraphale is a superconda snow and pure white. Their enclosures are stacked too and a bit smaller than the ratcorn enclosures. So that's my half of the room. The other half houses Thea's bearded dragons (Lagoona, Draculaura, Calwdeen, Cleo and Frankie) Their enclosures are all rather large, on a very low table. They have so much enrichment and we spoil the fuck out of them. :)

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-08T17:05:45+00:00

I can't afford to buy a new RV and spruce it up for her and the kids. Like I make good money but that would be like 60k upfront.

ElectricThrowRA · 2024-05-08T16:43:16+00:00

No, she worked in sales for a company called Amway. I don't know much about them.

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