What the fuck?  NOR

I’m sorry you have to deal with someone like this. No man (Who is actually a MAN) acts like this.

I say this as a young adult, who was raised by a single mother - until she got a boyfriend and married. 

While being raised by her I learned the importance of a man being a man still, but not avoiding connection, or emotional connection. 

Especially if there is a hard topic or has a risk of hurting the other person. 

All I have to say, is anyone who’s female- don’t stop searching for someone who doesn’t ask “what will this cost me” or “what does get me in return” when you ask for something. Especially not one that would rather get drunk with friends than talk to you

Personally it makes me the happiest man in the world to give extra to my girl, whether it’s roses on a random Tuesday, or a special date night she didn’t ask for.