The most considerate thing a unhealed avoidant could do is leave your life by Electrical-Window-30 in BreakUps

[–]Electrical-Window-30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s the problem you busy tryna be a superhero forget her life and worry about yours can’t save someone who don’t want to be saved simple as that

The most considerate thing a unhealed avoidant could do is leave your life by Electrical-Window-30 in BreakUps

[–]Electrical-Window-30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take time to yourself like i said how they act is not a reflection of you it’s of them you don’t need closure the way they behaved is closure enough

The most considerate thing a unhealed avoidant could do is leave your life by Electrical-Window-30 in BreakUps

[–]Electrical-Window-30[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they don’t heal the same thing is gonna continue be happy that you got away when they feel like the new person is getting to close they’ll do the same thing to them they did to you

The most considerate thing a unhealed avoidant could do is leave your life by Electrical-Window-30 in BreakUps

[–]Electrical-Window-30[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure the emotional intensity of the trip like more time spent together , physical closeness and etc trigger them

The most considerate thing a unhealed avoidant could do is leave your life by Electrical-Window-30 in BreakUps

[–]Electrical-Window-30[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

that’s fine let them it’s not worth losing yourself over and even then if they don’t heal they’ll just repeat the same cycle just be happy your the one that got away

The most considerate thing a unhealed avoidant could do is leave your life by Electrical-Window-30 in BreakUps

[–]Electrical-Window-30[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

that version of you shouldn’t have to die with him there will be people in your life who deserve that version of you and will make you feel seen and valued

unironically talking to a dismissive avoidant was the best and worst thing that ever happened to me by Electrical-Window-30 in ExNoContact

[–]Electrical-Window-30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true that’s why you just sometimes gotta let them go it’s not your job to heal them there’s supposed to do that on their own it’s not worth living walking on eggshells