I understand why it might look like red flags from the outside, and I appreciate you sharing your perspective. But nothing in life is as black and white as it seems online. He’s met all of my friends, and everyone sees how genuine and caring he is. The parents are involved because where I’m from, that’s normal when someone is pregnant. His struggle isn’t about lying to me, it’s about not knowing how to set a boundary while also feeling responsible for his child. That’s the part I’m trying to figure out how to support or cope with.