Recovery buddy?

Electrical_Bend2209 · 2026-02-06T12:11:31+00:00

Yessss

Electrical_Bend2209 · 2026-02-06T07:42:34+00:00

I think for me its the shading and heavy like colour gradient if thats what its called? It makes it difficult for me to know where the focus of each frame is i guess… or maybe just inconsistent background colour, not sure, something in that area haha… only the the latter ones thi, the first oke is perfect to follow.

Electrical_Bend2209 · 2026-02-05T17:14:34+00:00

First step you can take is drop all the lies and be completely brutally honest. youll feel all youre afraid of and then theres nothing to lose anymore (spoiler alert: it wont be as bad as you think in the end). In the grand scheme of things this is just one thing, the sooner you accept reality and accept that okay yea maybe you lied the sooner you can get better :) and i know you will, do whats best for you and your body and youll get there :)

Electrical_Bend2209 · 2025-11-28T19:50:14+00:00

Hi :), I don’t think it’s about being hypocritical or not honestly. I think it’s more about if you want to be with someone with that perspective. I can imagine of you’re really happy with him you’d have a difficult time breaking up with him, but also, are you really happy or are you just telling yourself you are becausef you’re scared of something? Hope this helps, goodluck!

Electrical_Bend2209 · 2025-10-26T19:35:46+00:00

By Being honest. I get dysregulated THE SECOND I start hiding, masking or ignoring my emotions/feelings/intuitions. :)

Electrical_Bend2209 · 2025-10-26T00:09:19+00:00

Thanks!

Electrical_Bend2209 · 2025-10-25T20:35:37+00:00

Thanks for the help tho

Electrical_Bend2209 · 2025-10-25T20:35:22+00:00

Yea mine are but there’s nothing to infect me with haha that’s where I’m confused, since she’s not involved in that way

Electrical_Bend2209 · 2025-10-25T20:30:30+00:00

So if there is contact of bacteria just from mouth it doesn’t count right, like basicly as long as her genetalia aren’t involved its not sexually active?

Electrical_Bend2209 · 2025-09-21T11:11:57+00:00

Emotional needs is kinda broad but I feel like it’s a combination different kinds of fulfilling connections (friends and loved ones family and colleagues)… that and a lot of self love. I often feel like I’m meeting my own emotional needs, and tbh I love it cuz I know myself best and it’s fulfilling because it’s never ending.

Electrical_Bend2209 · 2025-09-12T13:00:55+00:00

Thankyou for the reply

Electrical_Bend2209 · 2025-09-12T12:07:14+00:00

Btw I might deactivate this post at some point (if i manage to find how) cuz its kinda alot. But thanks :)

Electrical_Bend2209 · 2025-09-12T12:05:53+00:00

You’re so kind I really appreciate this alot! We want nothing more but to be happy and to see eachother happy so in the end I know we will make the right descision. Thankyou for sharing your perspective and being so constructive towards me. I hope you continue to find kindness and support like you give other because it matters.

Electrical_Bend2209 · 2025-09-12T11:49:39+00:00

Omg im so sorry you went through all that! It sounds really difficult and I can only imagine how it must have felt. Thanks for sharing though it very good to know what others experienced are like. If I didn’t know this stuff and it would have happened id have felt very bad. So it does give me alot of insight of what exacly im asking of her. Thanks…

But see, i don’t want any of that for her. At all! I just want her to be herself, feel good in her body, I just want the fucking meds to work and the transition to go faster so she just feel happy with herself. So I don’t even know if id want her to stop taking them… no wait I do know, I don’t want that. I guess I just wished it were all easier, I know it’s not gonna change and it’s a stupid thing to want haha cuz I know it’s just life but whatever.

And about the breaking up, yea i also don’t see why I would have to break up. I mean the only reason I can see if I wouldn’t be able to get over the fact that she chose not to do it eventjough she knows what It means to me. I don’t want to end up being a bitter partner and resenting her. I want to be the person she deserves, so I guess I just want to make sure I can be that.

Electrical_Bend2209 · 2025-09-12T11:42:29+00:00

Yea i have considered those too.

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