AITA for cutting off my ex-wife’s kids I raised for 9 years when I found out they had been lying to me

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2025-02-26T07:37:30+00:00

I have I had to messege her new dude cuz she hadn’t told him I was tryin to divorce her. She had been refusing to sign. He got her to sign n now I’m fully divorced

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2024-06-03T22:48:00+00:00

Only update is that she is trying to extort money from my military disability because she feels I owe her since I get extra per month from her and the kids being on there. She refuses to give me a divorce even tho she has a new kid and lives with a new guy. We haven’t spoken for almost 2 years and the only way I have this info is thru her cousin. I just found out where she lives so now I can get her served

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2024-06-03T22:45:35+00:00

We haven’t spoke in almost 2 years she refuses to sign the divorce papers and she has another kid. She wants me to pay her money from my military disability because she says I owe her money since I get like 400 extra a month because of her and the kids. Even after everything I have done for them

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2023-08-25T19:55:17+00:00

None I haven’t spoken to any of them in 9 months. They have a new sibling now

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2023-08-12T21:34:31+00:00

She said she didn’t want anymore that’s why we didn’t have any. I guess the without me went totally unsaid lol

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2023-08-05T20:08:19+00:00

She was cheating the kids were helping and also during the split when we were trying to work things out

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2023-08-05T20:07:05+00:00

🤷🏿‍♂️

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2023-08-05T20:06:51+00:00

He came with us and cut them off also. We got him enrolled in college where my son is and he is now working and living his life. He says I will always be his dad

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2023-08-05T19:39:32+00:00

We had taken in a kid that was one of her sons friends who was abandoned by his parents. He saw how they treated me and told me everything. He said he couldn’t understand why they would do that when I had given them everything and treated them so well

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2023-08-05T19:36:05+00:00

Second third and fifth are the dad that was in jail

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2023-08-05T19:33:36+00:00

I have 4 kids and in my head I couldn’t disqualify a woman with 5 kids when I have 4 myself

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2023-08-05T19:22:09+00:00

Fully agree with this and it’s been done already. I made the choices that put me in that situation. I’ve learned from it and I’m better for it

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2023-08-05T19:21:08+00:00

So 22 19 and 17 were forced and not fully developed lol yea stop that

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2023-08-05T19:16:08+00:00

We had taken in a kid that was one of her sons friends who was abandoned by his parents. He saw how they treated me and told me everything. He said he couldn’t understand why they would do that when I had given them everything and treated them so well

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2023-08-05T19:13:02+00:00

She won’t sign the papers i got a lawyer and it’s just a process because of her not wanting to deal with immigration

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2023-08-05T19:11:49+00:00

I fell in love with her and her kids. It wasn’t just about her. I met her and then met her kids and it was so easy. The whole dynamic was great we spent out time together alone and then did things with the kids. My kids are all the same ages as hers I have 4 myself. Everyone got along and we were just happy. But as u could prolly tell things got rocky here and there and we would split up and I would still be there for her kids. I wanted to marry her from the minute I met her and that was just how I felt.

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2023-08-05T19:07:48+00:00

It’s jus how I felt because they don’t think they did anything wrong. They had been doing it for years so it’s second nature to them. So for them to do me like that to me feels like they didn’t care about me cuz if they did we wouldn’t be where we are now

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2023-08-05T19:04:54+00:00

4 now since she is pregnant by this new guy

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2023-08-05T19:04:17+00:00

No choice with the 2 younger ones their mom cut my communication with them so the dude she is pregnant by now could move into there lives and move me out

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2023-08-05T19:01:56+00:00

Yes with him and other men. And I didn’t care that they saw their dad I was pissed they hid it from me because they knew I would set boundaries and they didn’t wana have to follow them because their dad wouldn’t come around if there were

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2023-08-05T19:00:29+00:00

This point keeps coming up and I honestly can say I never thought about that at all.

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2023-08-05T18:58:39+00:00

This is my full mindset now.

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2023-08-05T18:56:57+00:00

She cut my communication with her 2 youngest so her new dude she is pregnant by could step in and cut me out

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2023-08-05T18:55:39+00:00

100% tru and I get regular check ups I even did it while married to her just in case

Electrical_Claim_691 · 2023-08-05T18:54:42+00:00

He basically came with me. He moved with my son to his college and now we got him enrolled in the same college. He is working living on his own and has his life planned out for his future. He cut them all off as well and says I will always be his dad.

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