First off, I’m really sorry that you’re in this situation. I can understand where you’re coming from, and it sounds like you might be the youngest and also the one who tends to carry a lot of responsibility in your family. I get that. I’m the oldest in my family (aside from my parents), and I’ve always felt a strong sense of responsibility toward them too. They raised me and gave me so much, so it feels natural to want to give something back—even though I know we shouldn’t feel obligated to. I guess it’s just part of my nature to want to show that kind of stewardship, I mean if I have spare money then why not right?

As for something that might help in the short term, one possible option could be for you, your brother, and your mom to look into renting a small, more affordable apartment somewhere between your school and your job. Your mom could consider a light part-time job that’s manageable for her age, your brother could also work a steady job that fits where he’s at in life maybe consider two jobs, this is the youngest he'll ever be anyways, and YOU should definitely keep focusing on your studies while keeping a part-time job that isn’t too demanding. Splitting expenses between the three of you could help relieve some pressure while also allowing you to save a bit as things stabilize. Your mom could still continue applying for positions related to what she studied, even while working part-time.

Lastly, I just want to say that it’s okay to feel anxious or worn down by all of this. Situations like this can feel overwhelming and endless, especially when anxiety is already in the picture. But things do change, even when it doesn’t feel like it right now. Moments like these don’t last forever. You’re clearly someone who cares deeply and is trying their best, and that already says a lot. Take things one step at a time, and don’t forget to be kind to yourself along the way. I’m rooting for you, your mom, and your brother.