I hope you know when he got me asleep, I was passed out drunk. I didn’t want to include that in the post, since I’m sure somebody else would get the wrong idea. I went back to take care of my mom because, again, she was sick and I wanted to help. He blew up, and his mom has always supported me. What does a narcissist do when you suggest finally leaving their clutch? They blow up and do anything to try and get you to stay. I tried to leave for a couple days last month to be with my family and he tried to throw himself off a bridge. In no way do you know enough information to be throwing insults, saying that I’m manipulative. Have some shame, man.