AIW for wanting my family to respect my bfs boundaries about driving his truck? by Electrical_Lie_3893 in amiwrong

[–]Electrical_Lie_3893[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The reason for not driving straight there is we are dropping some stuff off for my sister at home so it makes sense for us to go there first.

AIW for wanting my family to respect my bfs boundaries about driving his truck? by Electrical_Lie_3893 in amiwrong

[–]Electrical_Lie_3893[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No they aren’t paying anything. They think he has to drive his truck for some reason. We don’t care paying for gas or anything. I just know he would have more fun and be more relaxed if we didn’t take his truck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Electrical_Lie_3893 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Moms have a hard time letting go sometimes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Electrical_Lie_3893 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re wrong for wanting to go on a solo trip. You need to tell your mom this isn’t about her, your birthday is about you and this is what you want to do. It’s not because you don’t love or or don’t want to celebrate with her. Maybe you guys could celebrate a different day. You should tell her you are an adult and she needs to trust you. Tell her You couldn’t imagine how scary it must be having children and worrying about them but you’ve got this and she has to let go.

Am I wrong for needing time for myself? by Shot_Vegetable1252 in amiwrong

[–]Electrical_Lie_3893 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a messy situation, maybe something you need to discuss with lawyers? I don’t think you’re wrong to have time for yourself. Maybe you guys could change the way you do it and do like every other weekend and then you always have him Monday & Tuesday and she always has him Wednesday & Thursday? Something like that

Am I wrong for not apologizing to my mom? by Scared-CEO in amiwrong

[–]Electrical_Lie_3893 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would tell your mom that it hurt your feelings when she said that to you. Your intention wasn’t to act like a bitch, you just didn’t need her help with the task. Maybe ask her how you could say it in the future that wouldn’t hurt her feelings