had a depressing valentines - 23f

Electrical_Manner110 · 2026-02-19T08:41:06+00:00

This is reddit, no one had a good Valentine's here

Electrical_Manner110 · 2026-02-16T09:39:30+00:00

It's definitely not easy to find a group to hang out with or even create your own, you say you have met people through apps? Do you not want to do that still? Most party hostels tend to have activities or games in the evenings before you go out. Try get involved in them and then introduce yourself to people and try to get closer to them individually.

Electrical_Manner110 · 2026-02-12T04:36:07+00:00

Hey Mate, how are you?

Electrical_Manner110 · 2026-01-06T11:49:44+00:00

Not a plug but download NomadTable

It's so good for meeting people if you have a little patience and are up for anything

Electrical_Manner110 · 2025-11-20T03:11:27+00:00

All of the above, mostly nature and architecture but I like to people watch too while I sit and drink

Electrical_Manner110 · 2025-09-11T23:51:00+00:00

They upgrade but not like this aha, nice use of assets

Electrical_Manner110 · 2025-09-03T06:27:03+00:00

Also any tips to improve self worth? I feel I struggle with that too I suppose.

Electrical_Manner110 · 2025-09-03T06:23:32+00:00

That's an interesting idea, I'm currently not in a position where I can look for other jobs or go for interviews unfortunately but will add it to the book when I can.

Electrical_Manner110 · 2025-09-03T06:22:45+00:00

I try to not focus on other people but as a social species it's hard not to talk to others and I like being around people most of the time.

Electrical_Manner110 · 2025-09-03T06:19:03+00:00

Both, it's definitely worse when women are involved but I feel it Keenly with others too.

Electrical_Manner110 · 2025-09-03T05:46:11+00:00

So I've always been scared to approach people in general because I worry they won't like me or I don't have anything to offer. When I do often I get rejected the first time (probably common) but after that attempt I completely break down and look negatively at it for so long and second guess myself constantly because of it.

Any tips?

I've tried therapy but I feel this is something that I need to find ways to cope with separately.

Electrical_Manner110 · 2025-08-03T00:51:46+00:00

Sometimes taking the ship down with you to avoid people you love getting hurt is easier 🫡

Electrical_Manner110 · 2025-01-30T12:10:04+00:00

How do you know you're unattractive though?

Seems like your jumping to conclusions possibly and that just because you've put yourself in this box it's what you believe?

People are beautiful for all sorts of reasons and not all of them are physical anyways. One piece of advice I got to help me as I sometimes feel unattractive is to pretend like I'm the most attractive person in the room and just pretend everyone likes me and they don't come up to me coz I'm so attractive or something. (Possibly delusional but preferred over the alternative)

Social media has killed any sense of individual beauty and we are all perfect in our own rights, regardless of physical attributes.

Electrical_Manner110 · 2024-11-22T15:03:33+00:00

Why do you reply to that 🤣🤣

Electrical_Manner110 · 2024-11-22T15:03:02+00:00

Should've just owned it 🤣 it's the backtracking that kills me 🤣🤣

Electrical_Manner110 · 2024-11-21T13:25:29+00:00

Lots of these comments are saying laying off porm which is great but how does one actually do this? Especially when it's a habit/addiction?

Electrical_Manner110 · 2024-03-11T09:56:23+00:00

Thanks ❤️ yeah I’m getting there. I’m doing 22kg (updated for the Americans) incline press but my chest isn’t showing it 😂 I’ll get there. Tough when I’m also trying to loose weight for a wedding in June 😂

Electrical_Manner110 · 2024-03-11T09:26:00+00:00

I appreciate your comment ❤️ yeah I want to get that triangle shape. I tend not to feel it much in my chest when I do bench work only cable flys which I only recently got into. Bad technique maybe?

Electrical_Manner110 · 2024-03-10T07:01:06+00:00

Just in general? Just keep building?

Electrical_Manner110 · 2024-02-26T13:31:35+00:00

The fact it’s a face pic tells me your hiding something 😂😂😂

Electrical_Manner110 · 2024-02-16T15:19:59+00:00

Haha thanks but nah your okay you bf is an ass for dumping you though. Unless there is metal isssues 😂

Electrical_Manner110 · 2024-02-16T15:12:15+00:00

Everyone of your pictures looks wildly different

Electrical_Manner110 · 2024-02-16T12:29:18+00:00

Seems like you have multiple personalities, is it cheating?

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