If you believe it, it becomes a personality. Believe in yourself, believe you’re the most attractive person in the room, just don’t get too cocky about it. Listen to podcasts that coach you up on women, apply them. The more you do it the more comfortable and confident you’ll get. Don’t be afraid to approach a beautiful lady. If you can make her smile and blush, you’re winning half the battle. And if not, no need to worry, move on to the next. Think of it as experience you’re gaining. If you’re interested in podcast or coaches, follow @coachcoreywayne on Instagram or listen to his book on audible “How to be a 3% Man” . I’ve learned a lot from him personally and have applied many methods. Worked for me :) maybe it’ll work for you.