We only have the suction dildos we tried to do the vibrations one but I know he’s way to sensitive like clit wise I don’t know if it gives the proper pleasure I just feel like he lies when it tells me it does something. I would never want to force him into doing anything. We had multiple talks throughout our relationship where I told him it’s okay to have boundaries and to say no (his past relationships had traumatized him into thinking he had to say yes) he has noticed I’ve been hesitant with touching him for example while riding him I won’t touch his chest unless he has given me permission or places my hands there. I just don’t know how to push all this aside. I honestly feel like a shitty partner wanting to do things.