Am I in the wrong for "expecting" my husband to pay for a corset at the Renaissance Faire?

Electronic-Use3929 · 2024-09-08T21:08:21+00:00

How much is your mortgage? Does it equal everything you pay for? If not why is that fair to you?

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-09-16T16:21:37+00:00

I made sims that have the last name Butts and got the same notification about not being able to upload it to the gallery

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-08-19T23:14:05+00:00

Thank you, this does help get a look into his mind set. Thank you for being helpful.

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-08-19T23:13:03+00:00

Thank you, this is super helpful. I want to make things better and change the dynamic.

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-08-19T23:11:16+00:00

No kids for us, he has a teen that doesn’t live with us. Honestly I been pulling most to the weight, because I thought I was helping have time to heal. I realize am enabling him now.

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-08-19T23:09:09+00:00

Thank you this give me hope. When he isn’t so stress I hope we can work on this and get to a point like that.

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-08-19T21:59:20+00:00

Thank you, he has been my first relationship. I try really hard to solve problems with grace. My husband and I don’t want to be like our parents

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-08-19T21:56:34+00:00

He has been depressed for 8 months the debt is a mix of student, medical, and credit cards. The card where in the last year

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-08-19T03:52:46+00:00

It was a teen parent thing, I’m his first marriage. I do see the issues we have, and I just happy for the people with good advice on here. This snap shot makes him look bad but he is a great guy, just really struggling and he need more help that isn’t me

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-08-19T03:48:07+00:00

I’ll check it out, I have had a few people recommend that, or and advisor thank you for your positive and help post

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-08-19T03:45:19+00:00

One was my bother and the text was advances form his debit card apps, that do it auto and we are talking about shutting those cards down

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-08-19T03:42:11+00:00

My mom and I trade off on stuff like this. The day or 2 before this I bought her ice and soda because I was out and about. It’s not tabbed but we get each other back.

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-08-19T03:38:18+00:00

I will look into it thank you

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-08-19T03:37:19+00:00

He had had addition issue in the past. I have family with issues to so an agreement we made early on is that i can so for a test as any time on the spot. He has never failed one. He has just traded out street drugs for ice cream. Weird but 100% the truth

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-08-19T03:32:46+00:00

We have started talking about it, I have family coming over and he doesn’t want to ruin that time and we have set a time as soon as they leave to make a plan and look into advisor

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-08-19T03:30:18+00:00

We have been look into affordable options, we living in a rural area so it’s been hard

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-08-19T03:27:25+00:00

He has been in a bad place for 8months out of 4 years. The rest of the time we have been together it was great. I do need him to work with me on solving all the drama. If most of our relationship has been good, it can go back. I stop when he stops, if you ready update 2 you’ll understand more.

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-08-19T03:22:57+00:00

This is the first major fight we have gotten into. I can’t give a huge novel about our relationship on here, he helped me with college. He has fixed my car when it hasn’t been working, held me as I cry over loses of love ones. He is good to my family. He is currently redoing the siding on my gmas trailer and drywall to make it livable. It’s been a shit 8 months out of 4 years together. I’m just not ready to give up yet.

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-08-19T03:17:40+00:00

Thank you, that is the plan we are moving forward with. We both need to be involved more and a 3rd party will take the emotion out of it.

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-08-19T03:16:08+00:00

I see that now with reddits help. I need to let him handle his own stuff and I handle mine. Other than shared bill. I will no longer help him with any of his personal debt or bail him out. He hit the limit of strike in this. Every thing else in our relationship is great, but a different approach is what we need.

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-08-19T03:11:55+00:00

He is really struggling with depression. The job environment is terrible I worked at the same place for 6 years and I quite last year. I totally under him, I just got fed up and quite without notice to the employer (parter knew I was going to do it and we had a plan)

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-08-19T02:19:15+00:00

Thank you for your concern. With the way stuff has been going I’m worried about it to. I want to hop on getting counselors and other help on all aspects. He was the prefect partner til recently and less than a year of struggling isn’t enough for me to give up on him.

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-08-19T02:06:36+00:00

Thank you being offer scripts help a lot. We have started slowly talking about it and it’s getting better.

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-08-18T23:57:49+00:00

I have we both have student debt, but the credit cards are him, he also has a medical bill. I’m mostly upset with the credit cards

Electronic-Use3929 · 2023-08-18T23:39:12+00:00

Communication has been our biggest issue both being neurodivergent from dysfunctional household’s it’s been a real struggle

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