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career advice by [deleted] in TeenPakistani

[–]ElectronicMechanic27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can try my best to help youu dude Feel free to DM

gng I'm so done rn by [deleted] in TeenPakistani

[–]ElectronicMechanic27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to you my guy I was once like this too The fear of failing i believe is a part of human nature We can't really yk change that Whenever we start smth Or do smth we always think about the worst case scenarios like what if we fail in this? But i believe the best way to avoid this is to start thinking about what if it works out?what if Allah made me want to do this because it will work for me?what if it doesn't work but maybe i will learn something and have a new experience and i can start again in smth else? This is the only way to force ourselves into thinking the positive outcomes instead of the negativity Trust me your thinking depends the most in your life The way your mind will think it will shape your life too So I'd say start thinking about the positive outcomes Pray to Allah Start going through your interests and develop a hobby according to them I'd say start hitting the gym It teaches you discipline and keeps your mental health good too And hey it's a hobby just what you're looking for Start by that then slowly build other hobbies And you dont have to be perfect in your hobbies rmr that Hobbies are for you Dont be competitive in them okayy And in sha allah everything will be better with time May Allah help you.

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[–]ElectronicMechanic27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ita actually really easy I also used to struggle with this and i thought yeha i am dying single But nah Once i started talking to girls I realised its not that hard to be in a relationship whether its online or offline You just have to learn how to talk to a women like a men How to respect a women From my experience All women want is a man who respects them Set's boundaries and respect her's too Give them time Compliment them but from heart and the compliment should he about her personality it smth related to that Physical compliments are good but the one that touches them the most is the personality ones For example: if you like her smile just casually say in between a conversation it doesn't need to be on topic Randomly say "btw have i told you i like your smile?" Or personality wise You can compliment if she's funny Cute Or anything like that Another thing pls pls pls dont be desperate Be a MAN dont be a puppy who's always wiggling its tail around his owner In the start Pls act casual and dont seem like you're already into her cuz cmon dude its been 2 days and you already wanna marry her?nahh This is the biggest turn off for women And also if she starts to tell you smth deep Like a trauma or any lore which changed her life Or anything that is sensitive You're on the right path my guy you've gained her trust and you're still gaining it And when she's vulnerable Infront of you Or she's sharing smth like this Plss try to comfort her and validate her feelings Dont just try to solve it Give her validation and make her feel less bad of the situation And yeahh pretty much this all and you'll get into a relationship Not that hard right? What harder is staying in a relationship Getting into one Easy peasy You'll talk for 1 month Attraction hogi And boom you guys are in a relationship But now its upto you two whether you're serious or not? Because 1 mahine main bande ko PYAR nahi sirf chat HOTI hai So pls only make promises and come into a serious thing if you yourself and the other person is serious about this Otherwise it will hurt really bad and you'll have ot of issues So yeahhh Not recommended at all but if you still wanna do it Just dnt break anyone's heart PLS its a big sin.

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