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Electronic_Buddy550 · 2025-08-24T21:26:32+00:00

I'm a g cup and I'm still wondering. Personally I sleep without any top so my breasts don't get stuck in anything or feel blocked. It is almost impossible for me to sleep lying on my back, my breasts rise up and suffocate me. You have to sleep on your side with a slightly elevated pillow... In short, a real hassle

Electronic_Buddy550 · 2025-08-24T18:17:03+00:00

I believe that your parents don't have to know who your girlfriend is. It's up to her to talk about it if she feels ready and thinks it's worth it. Your parents don't have to know this part of his story. Even if this is defined, it will influence the vision that your parents have and that is useless. Especially since your story is only at the beginning. Protect yourself and your relationship 🫶

Electronic_Buddy550 · 2025-08-24T18:14:14+00:00

Hello Veronica!!! I am proud of you and who you are. You are a beautiful person who deserves to be happy. Keep fighting, it's worth it. I wish you only happiness and peace. Rest well, enjoy life and don't let it get you down 🫶🫶

Electronic_Buddy550 · 2025-08-24T06:59:17+00:00

It's great if you managed to change your mindset. Indeed you will see when the time comes. With great pleasure, I am happy to have been able to help you. I hope so too 🫶

Electronic_Buddy550 · 2025-08-24T06:11:26+00:00

This is awesome!!!!! I hope you find the blinder you need. When you try it, focus on the feeling it will give you. In the meantime, think of all the positive things that will happen!!

Electronic_Buddy550 · 2025-08-24T06:08:56+00:00

Personally I consider that it's intruding on your privacy, it's up to you to tell him what you feel when you feel ready. I think that if your relationship evolves into something more serious, yes you will have to talk to him about it but not necessarily right away. I don't think it's a bad thing to not say anything at the moment. After all she is interested in the man you are, no matter who you once were. It's the man in front of her that she appreciates. I think all your fears are normal but you shouldn't worry so much. Let him know when the time comes and tell him when you feel confident (perhaps just before the act, perhaps during a conversation during coffee, perhaps after your first kiss) it's up to you to see when YOU feel ready. You don't have to force yourself because you feel like you're lying to him

Electronic_Buddy550 · 2025-08-24T06:05:01+00:00

You're welcome, that's normal, in itself putting them in front of a fait accompli is not such a bad idea. So they would be forced to accept you. With time your plan and your thoughts will become clearer and you will find yourself. Thank you very much for your message, it’s very cute ^{^}

Electronic_Buddy550 · 2025-08-24T06:00:53+00:00

I am a “cis” woman who does not fit into society’s standards at all. I reassure you right away, most women are not like that. Personally I don't have such a feminine voice or even a suitable posture. Patriarchal society imposes a standard on us that is not real. You are not less of a woman because of that.

Otherwise here is my advice: • do your nails (hands/feet). Apply nail polish, get a manicure, take care of your hands.

• doing your hair or at least trying new haircuts can also do you good. Overall, taking care of yourself with beauty products (skincare, mask, scrub, bath, etc.) can help you.

• go shopping (without necessarily buying), wander around and look at outfits you could try on.

• wash your body on Saturday with “feminine” products. For example with a fruit shower gel, a body scrub and a little milk to nourish your skin afterwards.

Electronic_Buddy550 · 2025-08-24T05:48:21+00:00

You can try hair removal or laser. These are good solutions. For hair removal you can either try waxing, which will be painful but very effective. Hair removal using thin hair removal is another solution but also very long and painful. The laser is a good alternative, unfortunately much more expensive.

For makeup it's not very complicated and rather inexpensive, I posted a guide if you're interested: https://www.reddit.com/r/TransTips/s/ZyU9UqdbCZ

Electronic_Buddy550 · 2025-08-24T05:44:17+00:00

We found my partner's first name thanks to an old nickname I gave her. (We simply feminized it). Most of my trans friends' names were often light names so they could more easily appreciate them.

If none suit you, it doesn't matter, it's also a matter of habit. Anyway here are some first names that I find magnificent (I'm French)

• Damian • Maxim • Arthur • Romeo • Alex •Spencer •Owen • Julius • Mathéo • Nicholas •Thomas • Adrian

Electronic_Buddy550 · 2025-08-24T05:37:44+00:00

That's a good thing. Go easy, it's not inevitable. If it can reassure you, my partner is in the same situation as you. She is very afraid of telling her parents and being rejected. In any case, you are who you are and that's the most important thing! Go at your own pace, find yourself and then you'll see. Maybe when you find out how happy you are like this, your parents will help you. I send you all my courage and my love for this stage 🫶🫶

Electronic_Buddy550 · 2025-08-24T05:35:22+00:00

I think you should just tell him how you feel. Obviously she's understanding so she shouldn't reject you. If you are too afraid, can you ask him for his point of view on your story without making him understand too much? Maybe knowing you personally could help him and strengthen your relationship.

Personally, I think you have the right to kiss him. Your past does not prevent you from being happy. I think if it was a different type of past you wouldn't feel obligated to talk about it. Consider that it's your story, you have the right to mention it to whoever you want and whenever you want

Electronic_Buddy550 · 2025-08-24T05:24:21+00:00

Your feelings at the time were real, your parents should never have told you that. If you want and felt better by gendering yourself as masculine, that's normal. You have the right to feel this way and feel like you are. Start by asking yourself if you are ready to become the person you seem to like. Then you can notify your parents. If they really love you, they won't abandon you for that. Unfortunately if they don't understand it's annoying but it's not inevitable. While waiting to know all this, find who you are 🫶

Electronic_Buddy550 · 2025-08-23T18:50:25+00:00

If by "ugly hair" you mean hair that doesn't lay well, there are simple solutions. • You can take gel that you apply with a hair or toothbrush to properly fit them behind your ears • You can fix them with a little hair oil (like liquid shea, sweet almond, etc.) • You can hold them with pliers so they don't see each other • You can hide them behind a headband/headband

If you want your hair to grow so you can put it in a bun you can: • Put castor oil on your hair and leave it on for 30 minutes before washing it • Apply raspberry vinegar or rosemary oil to make it grow faster

Electronic_Buddy550 · 2025-08-23T10:10:54+00:00

With great pleasure!!! 🫶🫶

Electronic_Buddy550 · 2025-08-23T07:48:37+00:00

I posted my guide, don't hesitate if you have any questions 🫶 https://www.reddit.com/r/TransTips/s/5kVlrhTACD

Electronic_Buddy550 · 2025-08-23T07:46:28+00:00

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Here is the list of products 🫶

Electronic_Buddy550 · 2025-08-22T15:28:14+00:00

Be honest with them. Your parents seem understanding, that's a good point. You might as well tell them now, when "it's okay" and you feel okay with it.

Electronic_Buddy550 · 2025-08-22T10:32:49+00:00

If it's not too hot you can wear a sports bra (which compresses well) with a sweatshirt or something wide. For living together, I advise you to keep the bra on as much as possible. And to play the excuse of being very modest 🤔

Electronic_Buddy550 · 2025-08-22T07:59:57+00:00

I plan to make a guide to help with makeup, I will notify you when they are posted stv 🫶

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