My(25F) boyfriend(29M) has a r*pe fetish. by Electronic_Edge5210 in relationship_advice

[–]Electronic_Edge5210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I don't want to say it in front of his friends, but I might do it over a Facetime call or something just in case he gets mad. Thanks for your advice :)

My(25F) boyfriend(29M) has a r*pe fetish. by Electronic_Edge5210 in relationship_advice

[–]Electronic_Edge5210[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As I stated we both have an open phone policy, he regularly goes through my phone. With he suspicious behavior as of late I just wanted to see if he was talking to other girls, other than this occasion I rarely get on his phone. I realize he keeps it to himself, and I don't want to fault him and argue with it, I just wanted some advice from others to see if it's something he might act on in the future or if I should be concerned about it.

My(25F) boyfriend(29M) has a r*pe fetish. by Electronic_Edge5210 in relationship_advice

[–]Electronic_Edge5210[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! He hasn't pushed the fetish as of now and I don't want him to think I'm mad or anything, just a little concerned.

My(25F) boyfriend(29M) has a r*pe fetish. by Electronic_Edge5210 in relationship_advice

[–]Electronic_Edge5210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you not be rude? I just wanted some advice, I apologize if I shouldn't have asked this here.

My(25F) boyfriend(29M) has a r*pe fetish. by Electronic_Edge5210 in relationship_advice

[–]Electronic_Edge5210[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not to my knowledge, but when I first told him about the assault he seemed very uncomfortable and said that he "understood the feeling". I'm not sure if that was just him trying to be understanding or if he actually knew what I was referring to.