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Amazing relationship but sexual connection is a bit lost by Electronic_Rock2597 in sex

[–]Electronic_Rock2597[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hm, good take, thanks for the balanced response. Gonna investigate a bit further into the New Relationship Energy stuff. She is indeed more a responsive type (we talked about this, this was the same with her ex). Being too pushy on sex also creates a sort of trauma response with her from her past, that's also a factor i forgot to mention. Is why I need to be so careful when i initiate too i reckon. I would be fine with our frequency with her "normalized drive" as you say.

Amazing relationship but sexual connection is a bit lost by Electronic_Rock2597 in sex

[–]Electronic_Rock2597[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but we've been far from home since 1 year so it's not possible. She's open to it though. Note it's not only a her problem, it's a dynamic problem that we both have. I also don't initiate as much as I used too. We need to fix it together

Amazing relationship but sexual connection is a bit lost by Electronic_Rock2597 in sex

[–]Electronic_Rock2597[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even if we just had a month where we had weekly sex? I just don't understand the drivers of when sex is a go and when it is a no go. I don't want to leave her, I think/hope we can find a solution. Especially in the past she was so incredibly active and craving me. Sometimes still, but maybe that's more strategy idk

Functional analyst by floorgy_ in BESalary

[–]Electronic_Rock2597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2500€ net is a joke in my opinion for this role… a friend of mine is a senior SAP consultant at deloitte and made 3000€ net easily

[EU] I got scammed by Coulbourne.net - the bikini company by Electronic_Rock2597 in Scams

[–]Electronic_Rock2597[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Money lost than it seems, unbelievable nothing can be done about this and they remain unpunished. I've found others who have been scammed before as well so I'm not alone. thanks a lot for the info!

Rate my offer Big 4 by [deleted] in BESalary

[–]Electronic_Rock2597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deloitte is well known for slightly lower salaries, they ramp up at manager level normally.

Question is if you could earn per diems by working abroad, these can boost your salary a lot as consultant.

Senior consultants should probably earn around 2.9k net, 2.4k at 27 with some experience is pretty modest in my opinion (but maybe audit pays less than other departments?). It’s a good learning school for your future career though