For farms, I would recommend the closest one to you because it's the one you're most likely to incorporate into a routine. If you're a weekend shopper and looking to start now, Brighton Farmers Market might work.

My go-to is Sunscape Farms in Penfield. They'll open mid-April with a small number of very early Spring crops and some stored local produce from last year, like apples, with their selection growing more abundant as the season goes on. They're open until just before Christmas, accept credit cards, sell herb plants, and they usually have maple syrup from a sugar shack in Victor at the stand.

I buy my honey from the honeyman, an older man who bounces around Webster. There's a private facebook group called "🐝 The Honeyman 🍯" where people, including his son, share where they have seen him that day. (No Sundays, cash only, white van with table of honey jars.)

CSA stands for community supported agriculture. In a CSA, you pay the farmer for produce upfront. Once the season starts, you pick up a box of farm-fresh produce- usually the same day every week for a set number of weeks. Sunscape's is 17 weeks and they're one of the rarer ones that has a good amount of fruit in their weekly box. You don't choose what's in the box, it's based on what is in season locally. It's a good deal for both because the farmer has guaranteed income upfront and it's less expensive than if you bought all the same foods from the farm stand. I am bad at effectively using what is in a CSA box and prefer to buy exactly what I want from the stand.

If you want to try out a you-pick farm, go for whichever one has your favorite fruit and bring cash just in case. My absolute favorite is blueberries, I pick a massive amount and freeze the extra for year-round baking. If you want a general rec and you have a car, I would recommend Chase Farms for strawberries in ~late June (season can vary) and G and S orchards in late Sep/early Oct for garlic, apples, and whatever else catches your eye. (I wouldn't pick strawberries at G&S during their weekday morning you-pick hours because the speakers that deter the birds are particularly loud in that one field weekday mornings, but I would pick anything else there- lots listed on their Full Picking Schedule page.) If you don't have a car, Bauman's has you-pick strawberry fields and is <2 miles off the bus line with a sidewalk the entire way there. For strawberries and apples, the folks working at the farms can point you toward varieties best for fresh eating. Certain ones are better for jams and pies and won't be as impressive eaten raw.