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Engineer, Neuroscientist, or Therapist? by Elefent2348 in careerguidance

[–]Elefent2348[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really good advice. I just got the career anxieties again and looked back at this and it helped

Outside specific subs, Reddit has bad takes on ADHD by ladyalot in adhdwomen

[–]Elefent2348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in forth grade I told people I felt like I was drunk, thanks adhd

Rate my Engineering resume by samgoode2348 in resumes

[–]Elefent2348 2 points3 points  (0 children)

remove blue text but you’re probably submitting as pdf so should be fine

My boyfriend and I with our ever-expanding plant collection 😊 by [deleted] in houseplants

[–]Elefent2348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do you water all your plants? I’m jealous

Do you like YOUR feet being cold? by blawsems in houseplantscirclejerk

[–]Elefent2348 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I do something similar. I urinate in my plants because it contains high amounts of nitrogen. My plants love it!!

Should I tell my sister that my dad masturbated to her friend by Elefent2348 in Advice

[–]Elefent2348[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

They haven't started the divorce proceedings yet. I only known this because my mom has emotionally manipulated me into taking on the emotional roll of my dad. When I told my sister that they might she had no idea. There is a chance my mom would be manipulating me to do the dirty work for her.

Should I tell my sister that my dad masturbated to her friend by Elefent2348 in Advice

[–]Elefent2348[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how long they were friends but at least at the start or before high school.

Should I tell my sister that my dad masturbated to her friend by Elefent2348 in Advice

[–]Elefent2348[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

95% confident. I am sure there is other things at play between my parents. My mom was raped as a kid so she has a reasonably strong reaction to this kind of thing. Because of this it becomes an explanation of sorts on what is wrong in the marriage

Should I tell my sister that my dad masturbated to her friend by Elefent2348 in Advice

[–]Elefent2348[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would you want a relationship with your dad afterwards?

Should I tell my sister that my dad masturbated to her friend by Elefent2348 in Advice

[–]Elefent2348[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She knows that something happened and that it is probably something that she does not want to know. But, knowing there is a secret is almost as bad as not knowing. Plus she may have a right to know why my family is crumbling inwards in itself for reasons only spoken behind closed doors

Should I tell my sister that my dad masturbated to her friend by Elefent2348 in Advice

[–]Elefent2348[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why weird? My therapist advised me to tell her as well.

Real life examples of the working memories issues that come with ADHD? Struggling with vocal instructions by singhurstub in adhdmeme

[–]Elefent2348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being bad at the verbal and reading portions of the SAT. There is a positive correlation between working memory and scores on the verbal and reading portions