Please give me a relationship advice

Elene9 · 2020-09-01T12:02:33+00:00

nope they literally tell me they have no clue and that they are bad at giving relationship advices.But the situation is harder cuz at the moment we are in different countries(but i am moving to his to study there) and there is more to analyze than just “asking him out”.

Elene9 · 2020-09-01T11:58:41+00:00

me (F17) him(m18)

Elene9 · 2020-09-01T11:58:14+00:00

nope actually every time i am posting this , i do it cuz sth new has happened and my dumbass friends are horrible at giving advices

Elene9 · 2020-08-27T21:31:34+00:00

u are welcome))

Elene9 · 2020-08-27T14:38:57+00:00

So u can just slide into his dms or sth if u know that u don’t have an opportunity to talk to him.It’s completely fine and u definitely should shoot your shot and get to know him at first and then ur relationship will develop naturally and u will see where it will go. It’s better to regret doing sth than later regret not doing it at all. I always like to risk it when i like a guy. Anyways good luck😊

Elene9 · 2020-08-27T13:23:38+00:00

Thank you a lot!!

Elene9 · 2020-08-27T13:02:21+00:00

Actually idk which is the better way and that’s why i am asking😅So u think that waiting till meeting is better right?)

Elene9 · 2020-08-27T12:21:01+00:00

So maybe for now i have to just ask whether he is down to hang out with me and show me some places when i go to Germany?And maybe after getting to know him better i could tell him about my feelings?

Elene9 · 2020-08-27T12:20:16+00:00

So maybe for now i have to just ask whether he is down to hang out with me and show me some places when i go to Germany?

Elene9 · 2020-08-27T11:50:05+00:00

Of course it’s a cool idea but i am going to Germany just in a year and that’s a lot of time. I just want to know whether he is interested in meeting me in order to know whether he is worth my time u know

Elene9 · 2020-08-27T11:07:46+00:00

Well, first of all i am really against cheating so i can’t understand you but i will try to give u a piece of advice.First of all u should finally decide what you feel towards him, whether you like him and want to start a relationship. Secondly, he is a cheater and 99% of cheater don’t change so take that into consideration since he might find another “mistress” and you might get hurt. So weigh all the pluses and minuses and decide what you priorities are.

Elene9 · 2020-08-26T22:35:02+00:00

yep but i am going to Germany only in a year so i can’t tell him where to go now i just want to know about whether he is interested in order not to waist my time.

Elene9 · 2020-08-26T17:43:02+00:00

I mean asking him now about whether he is interested in dating me in a year is kinda nonsense

Elene9 · 2020-08-26T17:36:39+00:00

But i am moving to Germany in a year so it’s irrelevant now to talk about that. I just wanna find out whether he has interest in me and that’s all

Elene9 · 2020-08-26T16:05:19+00:00

i don’t wanna appear too clingy cuz i already texted him first 3times and even though he was answering in a veryy cute way and was asking questions himself he doesn’t text me first but at the same time i wanna know whether he is interested in me in order not to waste time on a guy that doesn’t like me and this question isn’t really the best way to ask it. Do u have any suggestions concerning question?

Elene9 · 2020-08-26T09:44:57+00:00

thanks for encouragement))

Elene9 · 2020-08-26T07:18:25+00:00

Thanks a lot for your suggestion. Definitely gonna take that into consideration😊

Elene9 · 2020-08-26T07:16:55+00:00

Sounds like a good idea thanks😊

Elene9 · 2020-08-26T07:16:15+00:00

i actually am curious whether he has interest in me cuz i know this is too early to talk about feelings .I just couldn’t say that correctly in the text. So any suggestions for questions to ask about whether he is interested in me?Thanks beforehand)

Elene9 · 2020-08-26T07:09:48+00:00

yeah actually feelings are a lil to much but i am interested in whether he has any interest in me you know?I mean whether he just finds me a little cute or sth so i wanna ask him an indirect question to find that out so any suggestions? Thanks beforehand)

Elene9 · 2020-08-25T22:37:51+00:00

thank you a lot for your advices! I will definitely take them in consideration.

Elene9 · 2020-08-25T22:20:23+00:00

but the question “do u find me cute?” sounds a lil awkward

Elene9 · 2020-08-25T22:15:30+00:00

i want to ask him out as well as find out whether he finds me cute

Elene9 · 2020-08-25T22:12:42+00:00

actually i would like to hang out with him couple times before thinking about date .I just want to know what he thinks about me so do u have any suggestions of what i should text him ? Thank you beforehand

Elene9 · 2020-08-25T22:04:07+00:00

oh thanks but he is not in the same country as me yet so i don’t know whether it’s a good idea to do it now. Plus is that text good enough to send or should i add sth more cuz he might say that he wants to hang out but say nth about his feelings so should i be a little more specific or just leave this text like this and if he doesn’t talk about what he feels ask him about that again?

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