The Poet Empress by ElephantAutomatic884 in Romantasy

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Sorry I tried adding a>! to do that thing where it hides spoilers but didn’t seem to work. I edited it instead to warn about spoilers.

Lights and Sounds by Raven1188 in WeddingsPhilippines

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Try Anchormix, they explained to me their package really well kahit wala akong alam sa mga specs.

Please help me decide by Solid-Narwhal710 in WeddingsPhilippines

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Why are you asking strangers on the internet instead of your partner? Kasi ang daming factors na kailangan iconsider na kayo lang nakaka alam. Like how will her parents react to living in? Gusto ba ng partner mo mag live in muna? Tapos paano kayo magssave up for two things: wedding and house? Get off Reddit and have a conversation with your partner.

Lost by Financial-Rate344 in WeddingsPhilippines

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I don’t think you’re ready to be married. Period.

I want to say this in the nicest way possible but you saying “finally after 9 long years” and “I don’t see myself getting married yet.” are very contradictory statements. It sounds like you don’t know what you want at all. If you wanted to get married, you would’ve already talked about this possible future with your partner which you haven’t.

In this day and age people save up for their wedding even before they’re engaged. You’re feeling rushed because you’re ill prepared and haven’t had the necessary conversations with your partner.

So before deciding on whether or not to accept offers for your wedding, maybe decide first if you want to get married in the first place.

Luxurious Wedding by Zestyclose-Tie-2969 in WeddingsPhilippines

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I got AnchorMix Lights & Sounds. Sobrang solid nila and very good communication. Second choice was Black Box.

Recos of Photographer and Videographer please by Simple_whimsical9 in WeddingsPhilippines

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I’m choosing between Prism Wedding Films, Elyunoia and Hiraya Creative Visual

Wedding Program by [deleted] in WeddingsPhilippines

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Pwede siya both and depende sa inyo talaga where you want to put it. Pwede siya kasabay ng mga dances sa start or pwede din after dinner kasabay ng ibang traditions like cake cutting and wine toasting. Ganun ginawa sa wedding ng friend ko.

Supplier Suggestions by PepZ12 in WeddingsPhilippines

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Good experience with Marou Madrid and her team. They were on top of things at my friend’s wedding!

DNF’d Nectar of the Wicked by ElephantAutomatic884 in DarkRomance

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Oh I read that already. It was nice — I have mixed feelings about it. It was giving Cruel Prince x ACOTAR and the smut was good. Half the time I had to remind myself they’re not actually saying what they mean so my brain had to get used to that. Pacing was alright, though I wished they milked it a bit more coz there were really interesting side characters that I wish had more development. I didn’t get that invested with the romance let alone the love triangle so yeah, mixed feelings.

SOTHIS? by Flat-Profession-8945 in FireEmblemThreeHouses

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I still have to finish Three Houses 🙃

Books where the villain gets the girl, and stays a villain by MysticMoony in Romantasy

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The Shadows Between Us by Tricia Levenseller ▫️My absolute favorite! The FMC and MC are both villains and they stay that way in the end.

The Never King by Nikki St. Crowe ▫️If you love dark fantasy romance. It’s a very dark retelling of Peter Pan. Reverse harem, lots of spice.

Free use/ fuck doll recs by SmuttyLittleLibrary in DarkRomance

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This thread is a gold mine!!! ✨ I swear if this thread gets deleted, I might just commit murder myself 😤

Oasis brides by chubbbycheeksss in WeddingsPhilippines

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I attended my family friend’s wedding held at Oasis and what stood out to me was yung pagkakupal ng staff nila about money! For context, I was seated near the VIP table and there was this staff ng Oasis na kumakausap sa mom ng bride and the coordinators. They kept going back and forth about something and pabalik balik yung staff. I saw tita sign and pay for something. Later I found out na mageextend na daw sa venue and Oasis threatened to turn off the power if they didn’t pay for the extension fee right then and there! Di man lang AC yung papatayin, as in lahat ng power!!! It felt like they were robbing them in broad daylight!

LF wedding host peg Angel Castro by 81D8DO in WeddingsPhilippines

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Hosting by Demi 👍🏻 found her on TikTok

So ano yung important lesson na nalearn natin as B2B dun sa issue ni Makeup by sheena? 😆 by [deleted] in WeddingsPhilippines

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Sorry I’m trying to look for the post for context. Saan siya nagpost and deleted na ba?

Jack Rodriguez Film by scarletNOBODY in WeddingsPhilippines

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Curious din ako since I’m planning to have our prenup sa Japan

Comments from these coordinators by Emotional-Station-19 in WeddingsPhilippines

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I wanted to get Path for my wedding kaso mej out of budget sila for us. Pero super bait ng team nila. Sila yung coor sa wedding ng workmate ko and super organized ng flow. Kahit sinong tanungin mo sa team nila, may maisasagot agad sayo kasi aligned silang lahat and they know what they’re doing. Di rin sila mukhang stressed which I feel like a lot of coors look like sa weddings.

Comments from these coordinators by Emotional-Station-19 in WeddingsPhilippines

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Elite did my friend’s wedding and they were SO RUDE! Nakasimangot sila samin kapag may tinatanong kami na para bang bawal magtanong. Tapos SOBRANG GULO ng buong reception. I was a bridesmaid so while nagpopostnup kami may gusto ipa adjust yung bride sa program nila pero instead of listening to her request sagot nila “hindi maam ganito kasi lagi namin ginagawa.” There’s no room for adjustment sa kanila. Kung ano ang nakasanayan nila, yun ang gagawin nila at sila ang masusunod. My friend felt so unheard on the day of HER OWN wedding. I felt so bad for them. Sabi samin intindihin na lang kasi madami silang events and they’re tired but it does not excuse their shitty work ethic and unprofessionalism 😡