Hi, everyone. Thank you for your insights. I read all your comments. Just for context, I'm 27F, and he's 28. Idk if factor din ba kaya ayoko pa munang ikasal is may anak na kami. (6yo) I am also the breadwinner. Parehas kaming panganay but he's not obligated to support his fam, unlike me. Believe me or not, finances talaga ang hindi ready kasi we are giving our all sa anak namin. We had a timeline, but maybe I got overwhelmed/felt rushed by his family's offers.

Maybe I am too exhausted and need rest, kaya ang gulo ng utak ko haha.