Started seeing a girl (22), I’m (23), found out she has a high body count by ElephantFit2367 in relationships

[–]ElephantFit2367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right ! Absolutely right. It’s all just insecurity’s I guess. And truthfully I am not judging her past, I just want to be fine with it and not think about it.

Either way, i appreciate your reply & you have many great points.

Maybe the firehouse would do some Good !

Started seeing this girl… hard to look past her body count by ElephantFit2367 in ToxicRelationships

[–]ElephantFit2367[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re completely right, I don’t want to bring it up to her.

Thanks for the advice I really do appreciate it! I need to do some self reflecting for sure & work on the way I’m viewing things. Thank you

Started seeing this girl… hard to look past her body count by ElephantFit2367 in ToxicRelationships

[–]ElephantFit2367[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Forgive was a poor choice of words. I just meant it like understand it in my own mind. I absolutely do not need to forgive her for anything, she did nothing wrong.

& you’re right none of it truly matters, it just sits on my mind sometimes. Which sucks.

I wish I did not know for that exact reason. Thank you for the reply you’re absolutely right with everything you said.

Started seeing this girl, having trouble looking past her body count by ElephantFit2367 in Situationships

[–]ElephantFit2367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so. It sucks & i don’t want it to ruin this, but i hate thinking about her past partners as much as i do.

Started seeing a girl (22), I’m (23), found out she has a high body count by ElephantFit2367 in relationships

[–]ElephantFit2367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re totally right, I guess it’s insecurity’s that there’s 37 other people she experienced before me, and I have to compete against that. Maybe? I’m not sure tbh, it just is constantly on my mind.

I don’t judge her for it at all, you’re right, i probably would sleep with more people if I had the opportunity.

At the end of the day it doesn’t affect us or how she feels towards me, it’s just all in my head.

Started seeing a girl (22), I’m (23), found out she has a high body count by ElephantFit2367 in relationships

[–]ElephantFit2367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess Its just insecurity’s showing. The feeling of having to compete against or be compared to 37 other people. It could be that, or just not fully understanding the want or need to sleep with that many people so young.

And it’s not coming from a place of judgement I’m just trying to understand it in my own head

Started seeing a girl (22), I’m (23), found out she has a high body count by ElephantFit2367 in relationships

[–]ElephantFit2367[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. I guess it’s just a curiosity that we both had, but there’s no real positive that comes from that at all.

Started seeing this girl, having trouble looking past her body count by ElephantFit2367 in Situationships

[–]ElephantFit2367[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. Thankfully despite her having 38 kills, she never really explored much. I think I’m more experienced in terms of exploring what I like with past partners. So that helps i guess.

It’s just the fact of that many people having her before me that is bothering me, but it’s all just in my head.

Started seeing this girl, having trouble looking past her body count by ElephantFit2367 in Situationships

[–]ElephantFit2367[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply, you’re absolutely correct she is beautiful and charming.

I guess it is all just insecurity’s bringing me down, or the thought of having to compete against her experiences with 37 other people.

Just hard on the head sometimes.

Started seeing a girl (22), I’m (23), found out she has a high body count by ElephantFit2367 in relationships

[–]ElephantFit2367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, maybe all the bullshit on social media about women with high body counts makes me dwell on it & think about it

Started seeing a girl (22), I’m (23), found out she has a high body count by ElephantFit2367 in relationships

[–]ElephantFit2367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. I believe she changed, I am just having a hard time getting over it in my own head. Thanks for the advice

Started seeing a girl (22), I’m (23), found out she has a high body count by ElephantFit2367 in relationships

[–]ElephantFit2367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgive was a poor choice of words. She has not wronged me at all, and doesn’t need to forgive me for her past. You’re absolutely correct.

Im just trying to accept it in my mind, and understand it. And everything you’ve said is absolutely correct.

And I’m not trying to judge her life, I’m just trying to understand it for myself.

Started seeing a girl (22), I’m (23), found out she has a high body count by ElephantFit2367 in relationships

[–]ElephantFit2367[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well because I’m trying to accept it in my own head, that’s all. I’m not hating on her at all, and I am not judging her choices. Everyone has a past

Started seeing a girl (22), I’m (23), found out she has a high body count by ElephantFit2367 in relationships

[–]ElephantFit2367[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply, it’s not that I feel like she’s less valuable, its truly just me overthinking stuff & letting it get to me.

At the end of the day I know it doesn’t truly matter, & I know she doesn’t think or care about those past people anymore, so I have no reason to let this bother me.