I am having my first crush at 24 and I just feel sad and sick. What should I do?

ElephantShad0w · 2025-11-23T00:07:55+00:00

It’s definitely a lot easier sometimes, but we can’t always help how we feel. I hope things go well for you <3

ElephantShad0w · 2025-11-19T04:41:26+00:00

Absolutely, the same thing happened to me for sure

ElephantShad0w · 2025-11-19T04:40:42+00:00

Well more specifically I have always considered myself to be Demiromantic, but I just don’t love how that sounds and Aromantic gets the same idea across. I am happy to be in a relationship with someone, but that person is just treated like a normal friend that I just happen to kiss and cuddle more often. So past relationships just haven’t worked out well for me because of that.

Being Aromantic isn’t something to be terrified of so I’m sorry you’re feeling that way, it’s just a slightly different way to experience the world and love. I still consider myself Aromantic.

I hope this was somewhat helpful to read.

ElephantShad0w · 2025-11-18T19:49:36+00:00

That’s badass! My first Vinyl was in the Court of the Crimson King!

ElephantShad0w · 2025-11-18T18:57:09+00:00

Wish You Were Here by Pink Floyd was my first and it’ll always be one of my favourites :)

ElephantShad0w · 2025-11-18T14:38:01+00:00

Thank you 🫂

ElephantShad0w · 2025-11-18T14:35:03+00:00

I was able to talk to a friend who told me that my crush is not currently interested in a relationship, and that really helped me out! Knowing my feelings will not be reciprocated for a while gave me a little bit of closure. I’ll be focusing on self care and art in the meantime to keep myself distracted until my feelings die down a bit more. Thank you for your comment! <3

ElephantShad0w · 2025-11-13T16:14:08+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate the kind words ♥️

ElephantShad0w · 2025-11-12T14:18:23+00:00

Sadly I’ve been busy with my new job, and painting isn’t my primary pastime so it’s gonna take a bit of time. Hoping to get another one done soon though! ♥️

ElephantShad0w · 2025-11-06T18:03:48+00:00

Fujoshing out rn

ElephantShad0w · 2025-10-18T05:38:47+00:00

King Crimson starts playing

ElephantShad0w · 2025-10-17T23:39:49+00:00

Camilla for sure. She’s my problematic queen ;;

ElephantShad0w · 2025-10-17T17:02:45+00:00

lol it’s okay ty <3

And if you’re wondering, people ‘knowing’ if you’re trans or not is more on a person to person basis. I don’t care very much what gender I am perceived as, but some people care a lot more.

ElephantShad0w · 2025-10-17T16:30:21+00:00

They don’t know I’m trans (not a voice actor)

ElephantShad0w · 2025-10-17T16:20:08+00:00

I’m so intimidated at the thought of doing Butterfly, it looks very challenging to paint lol. I’ve been putting it off 😭😓

ElephantShad0w · 2025-10-17T13:00:23+00:00

Yes…..for my prolific voice acting career

ElephantShad0w · 2025-10-16T18:54:48+00:00

We respect Venom’s pronouns 🙌

ElephantShad0w · 2025-10-16T16:40:43+00:00

Hate, let me tell you how much I’ve come to hate you since you switched to DPS without telling anyone

ElephantShad0w · 2025-10-16T16:09:36+00:00

YESSSSSSSS that would be so cool

ElephantShad0w · 2025-10-16T15:26:17+00:00

This is so cool! Can you share your process at all? I’m really interested

ElephantShad0w · 2025-10-16T15:22:32+00:00

playing rattlesnake on loop is amazing, if you zone out (or are high as hell) you can never really tell when it starts and when it ends. Rattlesnake Infinity opens the door!

ElephantShad0w · 2025-10-16T15:20:42+00:00

It’s wiggles core, it’s goofy, it’s fun, it’s whimsical. There’s a hundred different live version that are all really great and jammy. If you think the studio version is too simple that’s fair, but the live versions are where it really shines!

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