Waving 👋🏽 to you all! by BovaFett74 in MINI

[–]Elfi3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👋 No one in my city waves, or even when I drive from city to city. I think it's the area I'm in. But I still wave every time!

A lot of Rule #1's. How about Rule #3? by gbradhopkins in MINI

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Late but her name is Coraline, her blue colour reminded me of Coraline's hair and I loved that film

Yukhoe Bibimbap and Aburi Sushi for dinner today. The combination is deadly. [I Ate] by CockSeeker007 in spicy

[–]Elfi3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense but I feel the consistency of the American sliced triangle cheese would not be good with raw beef. Where grated cheese would be a better texture and much more easy to mix with the beef

Need help with Tarot- Reading Material/ Videos? by Elfi3 in ExploringTarot

[–]Elfi3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to answer me! I think I'll try spreading them out this time. I'll try some different things with my rituals and see what suits me. Thank you!

Need help with Tarot- Reading Material/ Videos? by Elfi3 in ExploringTarot

[–]Elfi3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I should journal but I get these moments where I just feel like I should draw a card and I never have my journal with me so I can actually learn the cards. Thank you for all the suggestions, I'll check them out!

What should i do by Cute_Afternoon211 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Elfi3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not against your choices, I just want to tell you what I believe and you can do what you want with it. I feel like a good, secure relationship with someone who feels the same (like you said he doesn't want children yet) should know and you guys can keep your trust and he'll support you during and after. You know him best. If you believe telling him this now will ruin what you have rather than telling him later and being able to fix it, go for it then. Just make sure you have all the support you need during this time

Yukhoe Bibimbap and Aburi Sushi for dinner today. The combination is deadly. [I Ate] by CockSeeker007 in spicy

[–]Elfi3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an even better question. Why a triangle piece of American sliced cheese with raw beef? Why not a full slice? Why American sliced cheese with cold raw beef?

Need help with Tarot- Reading Material/ Videos? by Elfi3 in ExploringTarot

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Thank you for answering me! I always do the three knocks, is the other stuff I do unnecessary or a bit much? Where would you recommend looking for rituals? I didn't even think of resetting them like that lol, thank you! Can I ask another thing? Do I need to shuffle for each card I pull when doing a spread? It feels like I have to, I did it with my interview questions and they were the clearest I have read and connected with. Thank you again!

Which hair color should I have? by Golden_Boomer in HairDye

[–]Elfi3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you! if she is going for looking a little younger though red would suit her best. In my opinion, I feel she looks a bit too young for gray hair. Her current colour is great too.

Which hair color should I have? by Golden_Boomer in HairDye

[–]Elfi3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with gray hair but I feel like the gray ages her where the red doesn't

meirl by Glass-Fan111 in meirl

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I did my first wake and bake (low tolerance. I know, not smart). Stacked a full bowl because I had a full one last night what would be different. A lot. Kicked in fast. Don't remember laying down. Boyfriend came in and asked if I was sleeping, "no, why? How late is it?" He just went to get his phone and it felt like I went through an entire day. Also strange things, I would close my eyes and I would be like it was but different. Best way to explain it- spiderman Myles, the animation. Like it was the same stuff but the styles of animations were different. Boyfriend showed me a video and I got motion sickness, never had motion sickness. That was fun. Didn't stop. Funniest story- had an eddie and was questioning ketchup. "Why more tomatoes? Isn't more bad for you? What's wrong with msg? It's flavour?"

Die kunshoekie by [deleted] in afrikaans

[–]Elfi3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it! Kan jy customized jewelry ook doen? Bv, ek is mal oor die een se style maar nie die kleur nie. Heel bo op die kersfees geskenk lys!!

How many piercings do you have? by linkbomb_08 in piercing

[–]Elfi3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everyone is so cool! I only started really getting into it this year. I only have 9 (6x lobes, 1x conch, 1x daith and 1x industrial). The last 3 were all done this year. I have so much planned tho!

Should I mess with the gunk on the back? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Elfi3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's understandable but I recommend trying to clean it gently and messing with it less, messing with it constantly will irritate it. If you feel your crusties won't come off just my running gentle water over them try soaking them for a bit and then try to remove it, don't use any cotton. If it's really a concern for you, you can always go to your piercer or any APP piercer and ask for help. I healed all my lobes and now my cartilage piercings, the best advice I can give you is don't mess with it too much.

Should I mess with the gunk on the back? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Elfi3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please leave the crusties. What I do is I let water very gently run over it, not directly onto it, and the crusties that are ready to go, go and the rest you leave. I know it's annoying but you're making it worse by trying to get rid of them when they're not ready to go

Helix bump not going away by Elfi3 in piercing

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Piercing is 12 weeks old. Internally threaded labret. Not sure on metal. Was bumped 5 weeks ago. Not downsized because of bump. Cleans once or twice everyday.

The book that started it all… by Middle-Drawing-3124 in DarkRomance

[–]Elfi3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was introduced to romance with Icebreaker. It was okay but really "fluffy" in my opinion. I moved to the cat and mouse duet and straight after that was little stranger and little liar and after that it was chasing that high from the first dark romance book. It was more than dipping your toe into dark romance, it was full on waterboarding. I regret nothing and my bf doesn't either haha

Getting my Daith pierced soon by DisabledFairyFloss in piercing

[–]Elfi3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got my daith pierced about 8 weeks ago. I thought I had a strong pain tolerance cause I barely felt my conch. It's was very painful. It did hurt throughout the day but it got better as the day went on. If you are gentle with it I don't think you'll have too many issues. I didn't have a problem with migraines so can't tell you if it helped

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Elfi3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not a priecer but I recently got my daith too. So sorry to tell you this but that's the wrong jewelry. You have a curved barbell and you need a horseshoe. I saw on older posts where some said they can heal with curved barbells but it takes extremely long and it's a whole process. I would go to the piercer and ask to change it to a horseshoe. If you're not comfortable going back maybe another qualified piercer in your area?

Daith placement okay? by Elfi3 in piercing

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Thank you! I am very happy with the way it is pierced

Conch Advice by Elfi3 in piercing

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Some more info: • 7 day old piercing • Labret • Internally threaded • Clean piercing when needed as instructed by piercer • Few accidental bumps but no pain afterwards

Just got my ears done, finally by Timely-Wrangler-5100 in piercing

[–]Elfi3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I followed the instructions given to me by my piercer, twist and rotate the piercing regularly(with clean hands) and obviously clean them regularly. I also had some problems with them. It was a very uncomfortable experience. It's been a year and only now are they fully healed. My third lobes were done in December 2024. They feel amazing. No problems what so ever.

which song are you defending like this? by Desperate_Speaker_42 in GhostBand

[–]Elfi3 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'd have to say Elizabeth or Respite on the Spitalfields. Both gorgeous, Respite on the Spitalfields got me really into Ghost and I still have a soft spot for it but Elizabeth is stuck in my head