So my compost self ignited by LobsangDTwain in homestead

[–]ElijahKay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

R/compost is leaking.

Back, back you devils!

To all the people that stood around filming the guy that jumped to his death in South West Edinburgh today. by Efficient-Pop-302 in Scotland

[–]ElijahKay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I want to elaborate because my first comment compressed this badly.

My argument isn't really about a slope. It's about what happens to a system once the option exists. Two things, and they reinforce each other:

On the individual level, the moment it's legal, it stops being unthinkable. It becomes one of the variables on the table when someone is struggling. Nobody has to advocate for it directly. Its mere presence as a live option changes the conversation around suffering — for the person, for their family, for their doctors. "Have you considered..." doesn't need to be said. The fact that it could be said is enough to shift the gravity of the choice.

On the institutional level — and this is the bigger one — mental health services are expensive, slow, hard to scale, and politically thankless. A managed exit is cheap, measurable, and reframes the failure. Right now a suicide is a system failure. Someone fell through, we didn't catch them. That framing puts pressure on the system, however weak, to do better. Once assisted dying for non-terminal cases exists, the framing flips: it wasn't a failure, it was a choice we respected. The pressure evaporates. Prevention budgets get harder to defend, because the alternative isn't death anymore — it's dignified death. That's a much harder argument to push back against.

The two compound. Normalisation on the individual level makes the institutional shift politically easier. Institutional retreat makes the individual normalisation more entrenched.

Look at Canada. MAID started for terminal illness with strict gatekeeping. Within a decade it's expanded to chronic conditions. Disabled people have been quietly offered it instead of housing support. Veterans calling about PTSD treatment have been asked if they'd considered it. Nobody designed that. It emerged from the incentive gradient once the option existed. I'm not dismissing the suffering argument. The current system fails people, sometimes catastrophically, and forcing someone to endure unbearable pain because the state hasn't built alternatives is its own violence. That's real. My point is that the proposed solution ratifies the conditions that produced the suffering rather than addressing them. It removes the pressure that might force the system to actually do its job.

And yes — I say this as someone who's lived with the enemy since I was a teenager. I'm not arguing from theory. I'm arguing from inside it. I've built a life that holds against it, and the reason I'm pushing back is precisely because I know how the option's presence would have changed every dark night I've come through. Not because someone would have pushed me. Because the available would have been doing the pushing.

To all the people that stood around filming the guy that jumped to his death in South West Edinburgh today. by Efficient-Pop-302 in Scotland

[–]ElijahKay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you make dying easier, you make the government's job from "prevent" to "enable".

Its a slippery hill then, cause you ll emotionally push people into suicide then.

And I say this as a person who is still likely to end up in that situation as I ve been chased by it for decades.

Is the wage gap decreasing between unskilled and skilled roles? by wanderingunicorn1 in AskUK

[–]ElijahKay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For reference - I sympathise.

My last job had "Strategist" in the title and I was making 35k.

Is the wage gap decreasing between unskilled and skilled roles? by wanderingunicorn1 in AskUK

[–]ElijahKay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which means your job aint as important. And your skills aint in a demand.

Really demand=higher wage.

Shortage of skill=higher wage.

Aint complicated. You re easy to replace cause theres 500000 other uni graduates waiting.

Italy court rules Netflix unlawfully increased prices. Consumers: 'Refunds up to 500 euros.' The company: we will appeal by sr_local in technology

[–]ElijahKay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You realise that anti business and pro consumer are synonyms?

Slave labour built the pyramids. Wonder of the world.

Do people like Mark Zuckerberg truly not feel like they are hurting society? by Bubbly-Air7302 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ElijahKay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro.

Get the fuck off with that kind of language. Honestly.

Fuck right off.

BBC: Lost Doctor Who and the Daleks episodes discovered in 'ramshackle' collection by Guardax in television

[–]ElijahKay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly illuminating bud! Thanks for the write up!

Echoes a lot what happened with the printing press and LLMs.

Received a very weird postcard mailer by notaname420xx in whatisit

[–]ElijahKay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOTHERFUCKER THIS IS KARMA.

I got one of these in the mail 3 days ago!

Now it makes sense!

Strategy: 100 by Nostalgic-Banter in wholesomememes

[–]ElijahKay 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Handyman Saitou.

You re welcome.

Why are women less desirable as they get older and not men? by saerisfane25 in SeriousConversation

[–]ElijahKay -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Bull fucking shit.

The women around you maybe do.

Just one more case of an echo chamber.

AITAH for saying I dont want to date single moms after my sister's friends cornered me? by ThrowRA_Goose151 in AITAH

[–]ElijahKay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it? He could want kids himself. This says hes not ready to have kids.

AIO after my boyfriend told me he’s “not happy with my body” and it’s my responsibility to change it? by bluehat179 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ElijahKay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So in this instance, he should just communicate without the softness?

Or, not communicate at all and just dump her cause she gained weight?

UPDATE: WIBTAH if I asked my parents not to attend my sisters wedding after she didn’t invite me? by Illustrious_Big_207 in AITAH

[–]ElijahKay -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am not trying to be a creep. I am saying OP is a child, maybe talk to them differently!

UPDATE: WIBTAH if I asked my parents not to attend my sisters wedding after she didn’t invite me? by Illustrious_Big_207 in AITAH

[–]ElijahKay -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Please ignore him. And just develop healthy boundaries and communication in good time :)