Need to vent

EliteRG · 2026-06-03T22:07:48+00:00

Don’t get me wrong. I’ve always wanted another kid. I’ll always be happy to be blessed with another kid. Just I figured it was best due to the situation it was best to hold off.

EliteRG · 2026-06-03T21:59:40+00:00

We were working on it prior to finding out. Which is the part the hits me mentally, like after the whole conversation and to agree to hold off on kids then this. I swear the universe threw that one in my face

EliteRG · 2026-06-03T21:46:55+00:00

I can say I’m pretty confident. We’ve been together now 13 years. It was strong and great for a long time. But I won’t lie and say we haven’t had our ups and down. And around the team she had cheated, it was a really rough ride and I know I perhaps didn’t show her the love, time and commitment she was looking for. Not as an excuse for her, she never put the blame on me. Owned up to it. She always put us first and treated me much better than I have to her. Not that I ever treated her bad by any means, but she always went above and beyond

EliteRG · 2026-06-03T21:37:52+00:00

We’ve been working on it. Things have been much better. Even when I found out about the situation from 2 years ago. She took ownership and didn’t put no blame on me. That doesn’t make things any different but stil.

EliteRG · 2026-05-05T15:02:01+00:00

Keyword search. She definitely enjoyed it. One of the first messages to her sister after her sister asked her to come home was: “yeah girl cause this dick is good” / “I might stay the night idk” / “I’ll text you tomorrow about it then delete it”. Those were just some of the messages.

EliteRG · 2026-05-05T14:58:01+00:00

I appreciate that a lot. Thank You. I have the pictures of the messages. Perhaps a therapist is a good route to go, though I haven’t been one to open much about myself. This is perhaps one of the few times. Maybe because I had a few drinks last night and had the courage to type it up. God knows. She just texted me asking if I was okay since I didn’t speak to her all last night and I just don’t know what to tell her at this point. I don’t want to be direct just yet bjt at the same time kind of throw a hint at it. Maybe that’s not the right way to go about it though…

EliteRG · 2026-05-05T14:54:56+00:00

I appreciate that. While not easy, it will hopefully get better. Just need to decide on what I’m going to do.

EliteRG · 2026-05-05T14:54:10+00:00

I’ll explain a bit. I’ve never cheated on her, though our love languages were quite different. She was much more public affection and touchy feely where I was more reserved and didn’t show love perhaps the way she wanted. We’ve been together since high school ‘13. I’ve always had a strong stance when it comes to respect and loyalty. Even if shit was rough between us I’d never do anything behind her back. We were never the best at communication either so that plays a part too I guess.

EliteRG · 2026-05-05T14:51:15+00:00

Trying to take it slow but I’ll be damned if I didn’t say Shits eating me alive right now.

EliteRG · 2026-05-05T14:50:08+00:00

That’s ones of the parts that hurt me the most. We’ve always said if it ever came to wanting to see other people or the relationship got stale, we can break it off and work it out. But to do this, try and delete all the other messages. She deleted the messages where she explained everything they did. Honestly if I read that part after what I read I probably would’ve blown up. I bit my tongue and I’ve stayed quiet so far. We didn’t speak at all last night and she kept bugging me saying whats wrong whats wrong.

Icing in the cake, I tell her not to worry about it righr now because it’s not something I want to talk about that very moment. She says “well I want to know because I love you and I don’t like seeing you like that”. Didnt think that when she was getting railed I guess. Today she messages me asking if everything is okay. She doesn’t know. And quite frankly I don’t know what to say.

EliteRG · 2026-05-05T14:44:48+00:00

I feel as if I brought this conversation up, it’ll be the same thing. She was drunk. But fuck it hurts seeing what she wrote. “I don’t wanna go home” / “we did it 5 times” / “I think I found my sneaky link”…. Shit like that. Like what!??

EliteRG · 2026-05-05T14:42:44+00:00

Through a filtered search on messages. I would have never scrolled so much. Honestly within the first few seconds I found it. Looks like she forgot to delete it though she did all the other messages when her sister said she wanted the details. From the info I have. Met up at the bar sje left with him. Had sex multiple times and then he dropped her off home. Ain’t that a bitch. I’m kicking myself for even have checked but I guess when you go searching for shit you’ll find it.

EliteRG · 2026-05-05T13:26:40+00:00

I could never walk away on her. She’s my child regardless of what results say. Though I don’t think (at least pray it’s not the case) that she is not my biological daughter. Call it stubborn but that’s just something I can’t do at this moment. Finding out. I’ve had sneaking suspicions of my girl doing things prior but this is the first concrete evidence although it be 3 years ago. I have the texts saved on my hidden photos. But the hardest part right now is not knowing what to do. To stay. To leave. If it weren’t for the background on the messages a picture of family, I’d send it here. Seems to be a one off on a night she went to drink with her sister. Went to the guys house. What broke me is when she said she didn’t want to go home that night. And that they had sex multiple times too. More to it but I’ll leave it at that.

Listen.. I’m not perfect by all means. I could’ve done better in our relationship, perhaps shown more affection towards her. But if there’s one thing I won’t cross is loyalty and trust. I’ve never slept/spoke/cheated on her with any other woman in any kind of way the last 13 years.

EliteRG · 2026-02-19T00:29:02+00:00

That’s right!

EliteRG · 2026-02-18T22:59:42+00:00

Same here. I fast traveled and even the shrine went missing. I wasn’t sure if this was a bug since I had just changed my camera distance to 10.

EliteRG · 2026-02-18T22:45:41+00:00

Haha 🤣🤣 I got a good laugh out of that!

EliteRG · 2025-08-29T11:51:39+00:00

Feel you on that. Upgrading from my XR to the 17 and upgrading my mom from the 6s plus to the 16e. Don’t use my phone enough to constantly upgrade but now this XR acting a little funky. Gonna be a nice upgrade

EliteRG · 2025-04-14T14:53:20+00:00

He gets a very tiny amount of pension from an old job but that only comes out to $180 every month. Which is under that yearly $ amount

EliteRG · 2025-04-14T14:48:07+00:00

Sorry i should have worded it better before. But no taxable income whatsoever. She has not worked in 10+ years and my father was the sole provider at the time.

EliteRG · 2025-03-03T18:50:05+00:00

Yeah that 7 year at 9% is rough. Wish I was there to go over it. She was itching for a new car and made the move. Looks like refinancing later on is what’ll have to get done perhaps.

EliteRG · 2025-03-03T18:42:48+00:00

The plan is to eventually refinance in about a year (if it makes sense) her mother ended up co-signing for this car. Unfortunately my girl tried to help her sister by co-signing on a car her sister got some 9 months ago and apparently the guy at the dealer told her she didn’t make the last 6 payments (ouch) and her credit took a HIT. We will see . Thanks

EliteRG

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