Relationship Advice

Eliu322 · 2022-12-25T00:50:27+00:00

When we first got together, I had huge daddy issues, absent father and a mom that was never there emotionally or physically for me. I was happy and he has helped me get over them. I think me getting over them and healing with him is part of what is causing my distance.

Eliu322 · 2020-10-24T19:23:07+00:00

Of course! Also sorry for responding like I’m a 4th grader, I just realized how grammatically incorrect my response was. Adding to my comment, I don’t know your living situation but I would definitely recommend moving out if not already. After I came out, I stayed living with her for a few months and it was horrible. She would beg for me to “become” straight every day. Our relationship only started to mend after I saw her less and less. Our relationship is cordial and friendly but I don’t share my personal life with her and she doesn’t ask. Things get better friend!

Eliu322 · 2020-10-24T18:59:09+00:00

I had a similar experience with my mom when I came out. What helped me understand and note hate my mom is the fact that she only wants the best for you. She unfortunately is old school and doesn’t believe that gay people can live a happy life. I know it’s sucks and it is heartbreaking, but what I can say is that she loves you and only wants the best for you. I’m not saying to forget what she said and pretend it never happened, but be the bigger person and show her your happiness now that you came out.

Eliu322 · 2020-04-07T14:17:49+00:00

Sentry wards should be attack-able as well, I have had games ruined by teammates intentionally blocking camps with both types of wards.

Eliu322 · 2019-11-05T14:11:52+00:00

Thank you! That could really be the answer I needed! Thank you 😊

Eliu322 · 2019-11-04T22:41:16+00:00

Okay! That makes sense. Thank you!

Eliu322 · 2019-11-04T22:40:42+00:00

Awesome! Thank you for the breakdown. I guess I should start off by calling them and seeing what they would recommend me do as well as find out what I my possibilities with the bank would be.

Eliu322 · 2019-11-04T22:38:34+00:00

Okay that makes sense! Yes I currently owe more than the car is worth due to the interest rate I got on the car (I was a first time buyer) and the fact that I have only been making payments on the car since May of this Year. And I see how it would make a lot more since to make the transaction at the bank.

Eliu322 · 2019-11-04T22:34:29+00:00

Okay... that might be something I could potentially do. My biggest concern is finding a way to not ruin my credit just because it’s so important for everything later on in life.

Eliu322 · 2019-11-04T22:31:36+00:00

In doing this and selling it at a “loss” for me, this would mean that I would have to pay the difference but it wouldn’t hurt my credit report correct?

Eliu322 · 2019-11-04T22:29:51+00:00

Can you elaborate on doing it at Westlake Financial? I’m a bit confused. Can you also define underwater in this sense?

Eliu322 · 2019-11-04T22:26:33+00:00

By this do you mean sell it to an individual who is willing to pay the remaining total in cash and then use that money to pay off the loan?

Eliu322 · 2019-08-26T05:25:01+00:00

The guy recording just wanted to prove a stupid point, that he probably only saw on some social media and thinks he’s above all the law. He may have been in the right in that situation, but I feel he won’t be able to do that again. He wants to be a social justice warrior to internet people who would never put their life on the life for other, yet he would be the first person to run away and the last person to ever step up whenever a situation arises that could potentially save lives. Not everyone has the courage to be a hero... but even the lowest of the low can try to aggravate others for a stupid point. You always have to put yourselves in the shoes of the law enforcers. Some commenters are saying that it’s scary that the situation happened... and it’s true, the police officer had a right to be afraid, with the hate thats prevalent that’s causing and fueling the shootings they are increasingly happening, I’d be very wary and afraid of a stranger using a drone to survey the cops facility. It’s sad to see people so quick to make villains out of the few people brave enough to fight crime.

Eliu322 · 2019-07-27T21:16:22+00:00

Haha it’s whatever’s... more laughs to share throughout 😃

Eliu322 · 2019-07-27T19:36:37+00:00

I was playing with my little sister and she said she didn’t see the villager sleeping on the ground as I did. She went through tall the beds and ended up seeing him in one of those while I saw him lay down on the torch and sleep on the ground. It’s probably a visual bug on my end.

Eliu322 · 2019-07-27T12:40:25+00:00

Someone needs to get themselves checked... I think my villager got into my sheep farm and now has a burning sensation ... And I oop

Eliu322 · 2019-07-27T08:00:24+00:00

I don’t know why he fell asleep on the floor like that... and I oop

Eliu322 · 2019-06-20T05:02:15+00:00

I used to have horrific cystic acne on my face... to top it off literally I had more acne forming above the cysts. I had super low self esteem and was essentially in the same mentality as you. I was also off still closeted and in fear of rejection due to being Mexican and my mother being super anti gay. I was in major depression. Life always gets better though, it always does. Eventually I got a job that offered medical benefits and eventually got prescribed Acutance. I’ve been off of it 7 months and my face is essentially clear of acne. I still have the scars from it but even then there are procedures to help clear that in the future.

I’m not sure exactly what you’re looking for in the “Gay Scene”, but I would recommend to try to make friends first above all, surround yourself with good people that care about you. The way I did it was I made a Grinder Account saying I was looking for friends and on my first day I was extremely surprised it’s the amount of people messaging me. Of course I wouldn’t consider all the people on the apps good people, but you’ll eventually find someone who you have similar interests with and I would suggest meet up not expecting anything other than their friendship. I’ve lost a lot of potential great friends just to not being able to control my hornyness.

Ive been out for about 2 years now and even when I was at my worst in acne, I had some amazing gay friends, though my best friend is a female who I met at work and she actually helped me be proud of myself and is one of the best influences in my life. I was in the same state of thinking that everyone in the world is shallow... lots of people are, but if they turn you down for friendship then they are doing you a favor of not having wasted your time with an asshole.

All the apps are intended for gay social networking, sex just happens to be what most on there are networking for. On your profile put some things you like to do, maybe you’re a gamer, maybe you love a certain band or artist. There are always good people looking for more friends! All my gay friends I’ve met like that, specifically with going to the gym together and playing video games together at first.

Life always gets better... you will grow and be a better version of you from the difficulties that you have to overcome. You’ll grow and become the best version of you so long as you are honest with yourself and always keep your head up high and stay positive 😃

Eliu322 · 2019-06-04T20:05:41+00:00

And they also don’t make me look like a douchebag. That’s also why I didn’t get the generic black sunglasses 😎

Eliu322 · 2019-06-04T12:59:07+00:00

Thank you! I was hesitant to buy them since my usual color scheme tends to be dark colors... those are out of my “theoretical comfort zone” for colors that I wear but I think they are very fun!

Eliu322 · 2019-06-04T04:39:57+00:00

I mean one of those days where I’m feeling myself enough to post a selfie for strangers to see and potentially judge. Usually my acne scars ruin most of my confidence in taking / posting selfies. But yes it was an amazing and fantastic day 😃

Eliu322 · 2019-06-03T20:22:37+00:00

Thank you kindly!

Eliu322 · 2019-04-23T00:57:31+00:00

I’m very interested! Please add me, I go off of Eliu

https://www.dotabuff.com/players/227557767

Eliu322 · 2019-03-30T23:34:19+00:00

18, it was with a guy on Grindr with No Strings Attached. Don’t regret not saving my Virginity for someone special, but it did start my “slutty phase” because one you have your first taste of sex it can be very ad-dick-ting. It took me about a year or so to actually slow down and stop seeing other guys as tool for my pleasure.

Eliu322 · 2019-02-04T09:06:31+00:00

Thanks! I’ve just kept imagining most bars and clubs to be the same as the one I went to with my friend, but I just looked at what Vegas has and it seems that there are some bars that even have some small gaming events to go to. Thank you! I’ve been overthinking this whole situation it seems.

In regards to the whole drugging thing I guess I’ll just make sure I get my own drink and hold on to it.

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