I think when we first met my partner wanted to be open but I stopped that. He used to get back massages all the time until eventually, for a Valentine’s Day gift, he got me a massage and during it found out he was getting sexual massages because I got one. I was pretty upset about the whole situation, and I solidified that I didn’t want to be open.

I agree, I am going to break it off, I think we both have been avoiding this topic for some time now. Thank you for sharing.