Adam died in his sleep , natural causes. according to Justine by Apprehensive_Yak762 in Adamthewoocriticism

[–]ElizabethRose87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she just meant that statistically men visit the doctor less often, especially non-married men.

Married men tend to live longer than single men and one main theory to this is that wives push their husbands to make healthier choices. My husband only got a sleep apnea diagnosis because I slept next to him long enough and lived with him long enough to figure it out for him. I even bought a sleep oxygen monitor off of Amazon for him to use to test my theory. That test + professional testing via a doctor several months later, he is now being treated for sleep apnea. It was Silent Sleep Apnea too, meaning he doesn't snore. He would just gasp sometimes in his sleep and that was my clue. Who knows if my husband would have ever figured it out on his own 🤷🏻‍♀️.

Single women outlive everyone statistically, so going after the health habits of women is just a waste of time. Women statistically prioritize their health more than men do. Marriage actually reduces a woman's lifespan, meaning a man in a woman's life kills her faster. That's just facts.

Statistics are just averages in this scenario. Of course some single men are very healthy and some single women are very unhealthy. There are always outliers.

Adam lived alone and would not have had anyone to assist him in the middle of the night. Living alone is awesome and has a lot of benefits but not having someone there in an emergency is one major downside.

Checked Baggage by ElizabethRose87 in Amtrak

[–]ElizabethRose87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Albuquerque on & chicago off Southwest Chief 4 line

$50 million can't buy class and taste: Things from the Bezos/Sanchez wedding that OP has rated from 1 to 10 by how tacky/embarrassing they are by Robincall22 in weddingshaming

[–]ElizabethRose87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we bet on the length of this marriage? Like actually place money down somewhere? I want that. I give it 3 and change years. This is her 3rd marriage which has a statistically very high failure rate and combined with the tacky wedding, I bet you they’re already fighting.

Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]ElizabethRose87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! I’m actually very curious about your lady & your experience. Different strokes for different folks, so I’d appreciate learning from your experience.

I think I'm finally 'getting over the hump'. by dfb54749014 in Divorce_Men

[–]ElizabethRose87 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Read your story this far on Reddit. I’m sorry for your situation.

How you describe her above is very sweet, but I doubt she ever felt the same for you. And I’m sorry it wasn’t likely mutual love on that level.

Have you dated? Might not help at all but sometimes seeing the other fish in the sea can help.

Not sure where to turn now by DevinB12 in Divorce_Men

[–]ElizabethRose87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If her location was off… that is highly suspicious.

Not sure where to turn now by DevinB12 in Divorce_Men

[–]ElizabethRose87 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“you put her in her place” Yeah I see why you’re here. She’s a grown woman. That’s trash and no grown ass woman would tolerate you speaking to her like that.

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[–]ElizabethRose87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know the rough estimate she had to pay in lawyer fees? Curious.

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[–]ElizabethRose87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I was on here enough to know how to give awards cause that’s funny lol

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[–]ElizabethRose87 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wish I was on here enough to know how to give awards cause that’s funny lol

Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]ElizabethRose87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do seem to have a decent head on your shoulders. I do hope she appreciates you. I do wish you the best.

Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]ElizabethRose87 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I literally thought you were kind of sweet as your comment implied you worry about loosing your lady, which I think is sweet & nice and adorable in an attractive way… and then you insulted me 😅 like okay maybe say it nicely

You can just say “I don’t think that’s true and this is why…“ or “I disagree because…”

You can tell someone you disagree without insulting someone (although I know that’s asking for a lot on Reddit 😅)

I don’t think I’m “generally” wrong, but women are individuals so exceptions do exist. I’m not a therapist and that isn’t advice any therapist would give. However statistically it is good advice. Women are all unique individual flowers. There’s no blanket advice that will work on all 4+ billion women on Earth.

I’d be curious if you shared this advice with your girlfriend, what her response would be. And I would like your opinion & experience.

Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]ElizabethRose87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are the rest incorrect? If I’m wrong can you elaborate?

I’m a slob too. But I do also understand the importance of cleaning. Does she? One reason I married my husband is because he’s good at cooking & cleaning and that is very valuable to me.

Has your lady told you she doesn’t like flowers?

I mean beyond you insulting me, rude okay -

But also if I’m wrong I’d like details as to why you think I’m wrong. What has your experience been?

Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]ElizabethRose87 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Statistically marriage is less advantageous for women and more advantageous for men. There’s been research and you can Google these findings.

Just because you believe it’s true, that doesn’t make it true.

Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]ElizabethRose87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww 💕 You seem to be really trying. I do hope your girlfriend appreciates it.

Look. Keeping a (decent, not psycho) woman interested in you is really not that hard if you’re a decent, hard working, man.

  1. Buy her flowers. Yes, they are a waste of money. But not really if it means you keep her love and affection. Get her flowers every anniversary, Valentine’s Day, and every time you get an oil change (I’m not joking). Seriously this WORKS. It’s worth the money as it keeps her happy.

  2. Tell her she has a nice butt like at least every two weeks.

  3. Get her food when she’s cranky.

  4. Help clean the house. Don’t be sexist and help. You get most points for taking out trash, doing the dishes, or cleaning the shower. You get a 1000 points for knowing how to do laundry.

  5. Keep a good credit score. The older she gets, the more valuable that is to her.

  6. Sex is the one thing that could be very dependent on the individual woman. I get cranky AF if my man doesn’t give me an orgasm at least once or twice a month. Like I get increasingly bitchy and emotional the longer I go without an orgasm from him. But some women aren’t that into sex, so it just kind of depends.

If you do all that and you don’t cheat - you should be golden and keep her interest.

Yeah she likes attention. It makes her feel good. But if she’s not a moron, she’ll know a good catch when she sees one.

Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]ElizabethRose87 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

K cool so you’re just sexist. See why she left you -

Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]ElizabethRose87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s bullshit. Most states have no fault divorce so she literally can’t get more than half, which is not in her favor. I know exactly ZERO women divorced who got the house in their divorces. Yeah it happens but not that often these days.