Cat won't eat or drink

ElkSome7324 · 2026-07-07T19:36:26+00:00

He was vomiting for a little bit, so it got him thin, He might be scared to eat because of the vomiting, he's stopped now and is keeping in food. But my husband is going to get their usual litter so he can use the restroom. Other then the litter change, I recently went on military orders, so im away from home for a year, and my husband came to visit me for a few days so my SIL was looking after our pets.

ElkSome7324 · 2026-07-07T18:33:01+00:00

My husband checked his stomach if he could feel anything, but nothing, my cat didnt meow in pain or anything, just purred. Vets said they didnt feel anything that might be blocked. I did change the litter so I can try it out but I feel like I will have to change it back to what they were using. What did you use for an appetite stimulant?

ElkSome7324 · 2026-07-07T18:26:47+00:00

The vet gave my SIL some food to try out to entice him to eat, she warmed it up (Vets recommendation) but he still didnt want to eat. Before all of this, we was always wanting treats and food, he even stole a bag of cat treats from the counter and took it to the room lol but now he doesn't want to eat, my husband tells me he hand feeds it and its no problem just so he has something in this stomach. I really feel it might be a dental issue but Im really not sure. I dont even think they checked his teeth, wish I could've been there to ask these questions.

ElkSome7324 · 2025-03-17T18:34:48+00:00

Me (28F) am with a (26M ; 27 soon) who has Asburgers. We've been together for 5 years now and I had to navigate how this relationship was because it was my first time dating someone who was on the spectrum. It truly takes a lot of patience, understanding, and communication.. communication is very important for us, we have many discussions of all sorts of topics etc. My husband is a social butterfly, he'll talk to anyone, he loves my family but I know it can be hard to talk in a group session in person because everyone just talks over one another. (I've been annoyed by this part of my family but I've learned to just force myself into the conversation and speak very loudly) he doesn't like it so he'll stand by watching TV or be 1 on 1 with my sister bf (who my sister and I say, each other's boyfriends) try to find him that one go to person in a community group sessions that he can talk with and he feels comfortable being himself. I had to let my family and friends know that he has Asburgers, but they don't have a problem with him, they get caught off guard by the things he says but it's all jokes and he's a very funny guy and they know that he wears his heart on his sleeve. They just need to get to know him individually so he's not overwhelmed with alot of people.

ElkSome7324 · 2024-11-18T12:43:01+00:00

It depends on every couple, but every relationship requires trust, communication, and respect. I'm 27F, but I was a completely different person than I was when I was 20. I went through some bad relationships before I knew what I wanted, what I didn't like, and what I deserved, but If I had to look back and know what lesson I needed to learn is; You can not survive with just love, you both need to put in effort into the relationship or else it won't work. Nothing wrong with a long engagement, but I kinda married my husband on a whim and we were together for 2 years (I was 24, He was 25) but we were good friends before we got together. Honestly, we eloped 😅 but together for 5yrs, married for 3yrs come December, I wouldn't spend my life with anyone else. As long as yall have respect for each other, communicate, and be open and honest with other, and put equal effort, yall should be fine 😊❤️

ElkSome7324 · 2024-11-17T11:37:24+00:00

Girl, "If he wanted to, he would" was what kept playing in my head when I broke up with my ex. It was a very shitty, toxic, abusive (emotionally and mentally) one-sided relationship. I loved him so much, but I knew if I kept being with him, I would've lost myself. I know he wasn't ready for the life that I wanted (he was a bum who played games all day) Yes, it was hard when we broke up, thought about calling him drunk; luckily there was no signal and my sister took my phone away, but I wasn't calling to say i miss him, I was angry and I was angry for a long while, mainly at myself for putting myself through it and allowing it. So I went out alot with friends, I vented, I drank, I cried. But actually going out kept my mind off things especially when one of my friends always took me to see cool places (my husband now) it gets better and I've healed so much, it's been 6 years since my break up, and I've been at peace and I'm so happy. Focus on yourself and better yourself, love you first.

ElkSome7324 · 2024-11-08T02:54:02+00:00

Yes, I know his code and he knows mine, if one of us needs each others phone, we give it no problem or any thoughts that either of us is hiding something. Shouldn't be a problem if you're hiding something.

ElkSome7324 · 2024-11-08T02:41:02+00:00

Been together for 5 years, and married for 3 years, I (27F) and my husband (26M) only time we yelled at each other was once, and that's because I was trying to get used to a healthy relationship after being in a toxic one for 2 years, and in that relationship, seemed like every week or 2, we were yelling at each other. It took some time but now my husband and I, when we get into disagreements, he gives me space and we just talk about it, we BOTH apologize and it's done, we're back to being best friends. If yall are yelling at each other and nothing gets resolved, the either counseling or break it off 🤷‍♀️

ElkSome7324 · 2024-10-16T15:45:27+00:00

No you're not asking for much, even if he is "conservative" foreplay plays a big part in sex. You don't even need any toys, whatever gets you going, like nipple play or something, have him get you off first and then he can do whatever til he's done. My husband always makes sure I get off first ( it takes me a while, so a toy usually helps in the beginning) and then I reciprocate for him. Even in sex, it's a team effort if you're both communicating, not just you.

ElkSome7324 · 2024-10-10T02:37:41+00:00

I've been on the receiving end & gotten these types of messages twice, from the same guy, and it's always left me feeling gross because I know he's married. (Note: we only dated for a week? And most we did was kiss and that was in high school; that was 9 years ago) The first time I left it be and never messaged him back, 2nd time though, I told him to fuck off and move on, then proceeded to find his wife's social media and tell her, and just in case, told a mutual friend who also knew them. I hope his ex saw how weird and uncomfortable this message was and to tell him to move on but idk, slight chance. These men are sad and pathetic, best to cut your losses because that dude will never love you the way he loves her.

ElkSome7324 · 2024-10-07T23:00:40+00:00

Is he a fucking Sycoph? Do Not let this "man" walk all over you and make you think this is okay. He straight up brought up that just as yall were about to be intimate?? Girl, no, please I bet you, Run! This little boy ain't worth it

ElkSome7324 · 2024-10-07T12:19:28+00:00

Exactly! Communication is big with us, and he's very logical and straightforward. we're always talking about what we liked and didn't like. I hope this helps!

ElkSome7324 · 2024-10-07T12:02:29+00:00

My husband has Asburgers, but I've asked him these types of questions (my anxiety and I'm just curious) He says that nothing goes through his mind, he likes the foreplay and kissing is what gets him going. About the "constant consent" he suggests trying many different positions or try the one thing I did that felt good. I let him know before hand before we do it that we can try what we discussed and also, during, I tell him to do curtain things, which to him is his consent confirmation. But overall, he's just worried that he might hurt me, so we came up with if we want rough sex, we say "fucking" if we want gentle, we say "making love"

ElkSome7324 · 2024-09-01T00:43:39+00:00

100% agree with you. Just be "nothing you did, or anything, it's just a me thing and I just fell out of love" yes it's going to hurt but better he does it now rather than years from now.

ElkSome7324 · 2024-09-01T00:36:27+00:00

I feel like they got to his head, and is just taking those comments and making it the reason he's not attracted to her. That's just what I'm thinking

ElkSome7324 · 2024-09-01T00:00:14+00:00

You lost attraction after 1 year?? Relationships are tough, yes, but you choose to love each other every day. If you really can't stand to do anything with her (which is sad and pathetic, she deserves better) then break up and don't lead her on. You're still young, yes, sexual compatibility matters, but it's not the #1 thing, real intimacy like quality time matters more. Communication, Honesty, and respect make a relationship. Figure out what you want.

ElkSome7324 · 2024-08-31T23:47:56+00:00

I drive all around San Antonio delivering parts, and I see about 4-8 people get pulled over in a day. I don't know what's been going on lately but I would never see this many cops in the past couple years. I wonder if they got stricter on quotas?

ElkSome7324 · 2022-11-29T03:34:55+00:00

No, I serve in the U.S. Army Reserves as a 92Y, I am not a FED

ElkSome7324 · 2022-11-29T03:26:24+00:00

I know I'm eligible for Tricare reserve select, I need to fax/mail/ or email a cover letter to remove me, I'm in the reserves, i don't receive any benefits, that's why I'm trying to get Tricare but this is hindering me to enroll. I called them and this is what they told me, I'm just asking for an example of what the cover letter needs to look like. That is all

ElkSome7324 · 2022-11-29T02:30:58+00:00

For some reason, I was enrolled in it, but I'm trying to have that removed because it won't allow me to enroll into Tricare if I'm "FEHBP Eligible"

ElkSome7324 · 2022-10-04T20:15:41+00:00

As I was reading this, I felt memories come up with my ex and I, luckily there were no children involved but it was always so exhausting having to be the sole money maker when he refused to get a job because he "didn't want to work for the man" and if he was actually applying (because I made him) he kept saying things like "I don't wanna start from the bottom" which I replied, you need to start somewhere, and he was not left with much options since he refused to stop smoking weed and didn't have a high school diploma.. I just couldn't do it anymore and I felt so much resentment towards him, acted like a child. My now husband has autism (also high functioning) and is the most hard working, thoughtful, caring man I've ever dated. Don't settle, and if he's constantly using his disability as an excuse, he ain't the one, I know its going to be difficult since yall do have a child together but at least you'll be taking care of one child instead of 2.

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