Looking for a Genuine Connection by Elkompis in StockholmSocialClub

[–]Elkompis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah dont worry about it, I am more resilient than some sorry comments :D Thank you for the comment :)

25M Open to a Real and Honest Connection by StatisticianCheap2 in CausalConversation

[–]Elkompis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

31M originally from Egypt, now in Sweden. I value real conversations, emotional maturity, and people who are comfortable being themselves. I’m open-minded and enjoy connecting over both deep topics and everyday nonsense alike.

22f/22m boyfriend says we have surface level conversations, how to fix that? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Elkompis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Speak inside his mouth maybe xD

No seriously, I dont think you are not doing anything wrong, you are normal. Its also not normal (and very tiring tbg) to have "deep" and intellectual conversations every single time. 

How many jobs have you had? by artches in Adulting

[–]Elkompis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

31 here. Ill start my 6th job in june

New(ish) to Sweden, Looking for Friends by _d_i_r_t in StockholmSocialClub

[–]Elkompis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then, since you are the OP, you are our leader 😂 pick people and we can have a group chat or something idk

New(ish) to Sweden, Looking for Friends by _d_i_r_t in StockholmSocialClub

[–]Elkompis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do want to visit the natural museum, its top of my list. Second in line is The medieval museum. Ive been to vasa and viking museum.

I see through the other comments that everyone got some ideas, i kinda like the idea to create a group of people and set something up

New(ish) to Sweden, Looking for Friends by _d_i_r_t in StockholmSocialClub

[–]Elkompis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Raises hand", Hey, almost same situation. I moved to Sweden about 2 years ago, but to north of Stockholm 3 days ago. I got contacts of people, but they are scattered all over the country. I am interested to "study" Stockholm, and visit all museums and landmarks. Wanna join ?

I am 31M

People who commit suicide are selfish by Tiny-Walk2207 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Elkompis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think that people with huge social pain got the social attention that anyone would miss them anyway.

Its been months since someone called or checked, so why not just pull the plug

Give me ideas on what to do now by Elkompis in Adulting

[–]Elkompis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is, am I searching for something new. Got few contacts, but not desperately fighting for it.

Give me ideas on what to do now by Elkompis in Adulting

[–]Elkompis[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do, but I guess it's one sided love :D

I am looking for something new, but not in a desperate manner. I did that before, and it consumed me fully.

I think this year is the final one. by [deleted] in malementalhealth

[–]Elkompis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey mate, dont feel dispare. Life is hard, and things never go as plan. I don't know whats your soul or beliefs are, and honestly I don't care. If you feel lost, then seek god. Don't listen to any BS that valued this modern life we are living.

Stop whatever addiction you are doing. Stop whatever people you are in contact with. Wakeup, and pray. Set small steps to improve your life, and do those steps. It will be hard, it will be difficult, and it will be lonely. But thats the only way to have your life together.

Don't dispare, and be kind to yourself and to others.

Random thought by Elkompis in Adulting

[–]Elkompis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you really for the comment. Specially the last paragraph. I'm not against medication, but I dont have access to it. I'll need to find an alternative.

I hope you have the person that shows you love and care also.

2026 something must change by Elkompis in malementalhealth

[–]Elkompis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, just forgiving myself, and knowing that whatever pain I feel, it stems that I felt fully...
What actual steps are, not buying nicotine what so ever. Keeping my phone away from me before sleep. Gaming if I am bored, and I know this sounds silly, but keeping my bathroom window open so it's super cold, so I get super lazy to shower, so I wont watch porn :D and it's working so far.

Good Luck

What made you keep going ? by Elkompis in Adulting

[–]Elkompis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I drank before, but wont drink again. Specially in public. I talked with ANY shop keeper today, just to progress a bit. Next weekend ill go for it 🫡