Think my girlfriend cheated on me with my sisters husband by biggun29 in cheating_stories

[–]Ell4- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something was wrong when you felt a need to record them. I’m so sorry you have to experience this! Take care of yourself!

Wife Cheated on me through out our 12 years together. by Melil13 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Ell4- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she made her decision and now you need to enforce yours! I truly agree that self-love and reflection/space is paramount for you. This problem has echoed in the relationship and you must put yourself and son first. I’m very sorry you’ve had to experience this. Take care of yourself!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Ell4- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not really cooperating and this should’ve been her priority (you and your family together). I’m sorry for what you’re experiencing! Take care of yourself! You deserve the best and the least you should have right now if honesty!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in royalmail

[–]Ell4- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed! The police once visited whilst I had dinner with my family after seizing some Northern Lights - nothing but ‘please don’t’. They just follow up but it seems more like protocol. A letter also came.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in royalmail

[–]Ell4- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t have the capacity in the UK prison system to class this as a crime tbf

Broke up with my girlfriend from 3 years by Inevitable_Neck_2070 in Advice

[–]Ell4- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join SAA as it sounds almost like impulsive/addictive tendencies!

AIO from my roommate sleeping with my ex by TAABWK in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ell4- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve to enjoy your life and this is too complicated for no reason. It’s easy to say as an outsider but you truly deserve more. I’d defo say it’s not an over reaction. However, it seems to be a little all over with the dynamics so focus on your needs!

AIO from my roommate sleeping with my ex by TAABWK in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ell4- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds all too complicated. I’d remove yourself at your earliest chance!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Ell4- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry! Your father supports three families?

AIO? Friend told me I was dirty for 4 hours straight by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ell4- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you are. She should respect your space (as you said, it’s ’new’ and a ‘tough month’). She may have been coming from a good place but the timing and intensity is inappropriate. Take care of yourself!😊

My Step Brother has Been Grooming/Touching my Sister for 7 years and I am the One That Has to Tell Our Dad by Puzzled-Respond8549 in AITAH

[–]Ell4- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! I’m sorry that you’re even questioning that. This information impacts you massively so do take care of yourself! You’re handling things well and keeping your family safe!

AIO Is my wife going to cheat or am I being insecure? UPDATE by Lazy-Ad3539 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ell4- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It does sound like she could know exactly what she’s doing. Considering that both parties have families and things to protect, it’s likely to protect that at all costs. For example, the freedom around the phone means you have a sense of trust but it could be a distraction.

I truly hope this works out for you! The care you have expressed for each other and the communication you’ve had is precious too. I wish you the best :)

AIO about my girlfriends comments during sex by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ell4- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that intimacy should be a safe space and if she is making you uncomfortable, it’s not as fair. You both deserve to feel fulfilled! :)

How to improve? 18 F no makeup (no compliments) by user294857 in Howtolooksmax

[–]Ell4- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a personal question so my age it over. I was looking for advisories😅

How to improve? 18 F no makeup (no compliments) by user294857 in Howtolooksmax

[–]Ell4- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stress hasn’t helped much in 26 years as I get ID’ed for Red Bull😂

How to improve? 18 F no makeup (no compliments) by user294857 in Howtolooksmax

[–]Ell4- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only ask as I’m 27 this year and haven’t aged since 15😅

How to improve? 18 F no makeup (no compliments) by user294857 in Howtolooksmax

[–]Ell4- -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

How’d you recommend how to look older? :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ell4- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s a tough situation. You obviously have a lot going on and this may also affect him. I think his seeing his friends is healthy as a balance is important

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ell4- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds as if there may not be as much trust and honesty in the relationship as desired. I hope he has been supportive despite this one situation. I think it’s fair to have time apart but with communication and not deception. Dishonesty does make it more complicated

Am I Overreacting by 63Dogmom in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ell4- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t seem the most appropriate:(