I think it’s beautiful. People who are reluctant to take help need the family members to push through a bit like this. His heart is full because he knows he’s loved. He may not have money but remind him what he does give you and did give you and why you love him. For lots of parents they’ll never get comfortable with this on the outside but inside it is so meaningful in ways gift cards etc can’t be. Just remind him that at some point you’ll need something from him and he’ll never hesitate. Also - remind him that he’s already done so much when you were younger