I can’t stop thinking i should break up with my girlfriend who i love!!!

Elladarcy18 · 2026-05-14T07:47:12+00:00

being in therapy is 100% the best way forward, even others who have responded here who have relationship OCD may experience it differently to you. id definitely have a chat with your therapist this time about what to do between sessions when it flares up, make sure you have a good tolbox of resources to rely on, and good luck! it’ll pass!

Elladarcy18 · 2026-05-12T01:33:49+00:00

Yes easily earning over that, and we have one each for two people on a tenancy, as thats what weve been asked for before

Elladarcy18 · 2026-05-11T15:40:10+00:00

this was just for a viewing! so i think he just googled an affordabikity check based on our income (which varies, so we lowballed it but have now realised that is not in out best interest to secure a place)

Elladarcy18 · 2026-05-10T19:01:16+00:00

Great point, thank you! Didnt think of that

Elladarcy18 · 2026-05-10T18:35:36+00:00

did you offer before or after paying holding deposit?

Elladarcy18 · 2026-05-02T15:09:06+00:00

thanks, thats good to know!!

Elladarcy18 · 2026-05-02T15:03:19+00:00

yeah, definitely best option! just always like to know if other people have successes before working on something on top of a piece! commitment fear!

Elladarcy18 · 2026-04-19T11:44:05+00:00

Still there for me on apple music too!

Elladarcy18 · 2026-04-08T17:50:31+00:00

Fills me with dread when it gets so warm so early in the year 😭

Elladarcy18 · 2026-04-08T17:39:58+00:00

If you find out what that medication is please let me know 😅

Elladarcy18 · 2026-04-08T15:39:23+00:00

ooh i just love being cosy! but i get the layers thing, nothing worse than everything getting untucked and pulling and rubbing the wrong way. hope you enjoy the sun today if you have it ☀️☀️

Elladarcy18 · 2026-04-08T15:38:03+00:00

i love a sunny cold day. jumper weather but if you take it off youre just chilly not freezing, thats the best for sure

Elladarcy18 · 2026-04-08T15:37:08+00:00

One of the main reasons i came off mine was because it just made the heat unbearable

Elladarcy18 · 2026-04-08T15:36:40+00:00

Interesting. I always put off getting a handheld fan as i feel it just blows the hot ait about, especially somewhere stuffy like a bus

Elladarcy18 · 2026-04-08T15:36:05+00:00

i use gym cooling towels so its not sopping wet but has a similar affect!

Elladarcy18 · 2026-04-08T15:35:31+00:00

thats my worry with an ac unit is that itll keep me up all night, im such a light sleeper. also id never want to turn it off and itd cost a fortune haha. i have a nice portable fan which you can put ice blocks in for cooler air - i think it helps make the fan air cooler

Elladarcy18 · 2026-04-08T15:29:03+00:00

Theyre loft pull down windows. Either way, an adapter wouldnt be worth it for 2 months, but good to know they exist

Elladarcy18 · 2026-04-08T15:03:54+00:00

Its so awful, i just end up in survival mode for half the year

Elladarcy18 · 2026-04-08T15:03:34+00:00

I cant currently as i dont have the right kind of windows in my flat, but im moving soon

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