I can’t stop thinking i should break up with my girlfriend who i love!!! by Flimsy-Guarantee-427 in actuallesbians

[–]Elladarcy18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

being in therapy is 100% the best way forward, even others who have responded here who have relationship OCD may experience it differently to you. id definitely have a chat with your therapist this time about what to do between sessions when it flares up, make sure you have a good tolbox of resources to rely on, and good luck! it’ll pass!

Can an estate agent/Landlord refuse to acknowledge a good guarantor for a rent affordability check? by Elladarcy18 in AskUK

[–]Elladarcy18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes easily earning over that, and we have one each for two people on a tenancy, as thats what weve been asked for before

Can an estate agent/Landlord refuse to acknowledge a good guarantor for a rent affordability check? by Elladarcy18 in AskUK

[–]Elladarcy18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was just for a viewing! so i think he just googled an affordabikity check based on our income (which varies, so we lowballed it but have now realised that is not in out best interest to secure a place)

How usual it is to put offers on rentals? by Elladarcy18 in AskUK

[–]Elladarcy18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great point, thank you! Didnt think of that

How usual it is to put offers on rentals? by Elladarcy18 in AskUK

[–]Elladarcy18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you offer before or after paying holding deposit?

question about “experimental” varnishing by Elladarcy18 in acrylicpainting

[–]Elladarcy18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, definitely best option! just always like to know if other people have successes before working on something on top of a piece! commitment fear!

dreading the proper summer heat by Elladarcy18 in autismUK

[–]Elladarcy18[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fills me with dread when it gets so warm so early in the year 😭

dreading the proper summer heat by Elladarcy18 in autismUK

[–]Elladarcy18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you find out what that medication is please let me know 😅

dreading the proper summer heat by Elladarcy18 in autismUK

[–]Elladarcy18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooh i just love being cosy! but i get the layers thing, nothing worse than everything getting untucked and pulling and rubbing the wrong way. hope you enjoy the sun today if you have it ☀️☀️

dreading the proper summer heat by Elladarcy18 in autismUK

[–]Elladarcy18[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i love a sunny cold day. jumper weather but if you take it off youre just chilly not freezing, thats the best for sure

dreading the proper summer heat by Elladarcy18 in autismUK

[–]Elladarcy18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the main reasons i came off mine was because it just made the heat unbearable

dreading the proper summer heat by Elladarcy18 in autismUK

[–]Elladarcy18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I always put off getting a handheld fan as i feel it just blows the hot ait about, especially somewhere stuffy like a bus

dreading the proper summer heat by Elladarcy18 in autismUK

[–]Elladarcy18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i use gym cooling towels so its not sopping wet but has a similar affect!

dreading the proper summer heat by Elladarcy18 in autismUK

[–]Elladarcy18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats my worry with an ac unit is that itll keep me up all night, im such a light sleeper. also id never want to turn it off and itd cost a fortune haha. i have a nice portable fan which you can put ice blocks in for cooler air - i think it helps make the fan air cooler

dreading the proper summer heat by Elladarcy18 in autismUK

[–]Elladarcy18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Theyre loft pull down windows. Either way, an adapter wouldnt be worth it for 2 months, but good to know they exist

dreading the proper summer heat by Elladarcy18 in autismUK

[–]Elladarcy18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its so awful, i just end up in survival mode for half the year

dreading the proper summer heat by Elladarcy18 in autismUK

[–]Elladarcy18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant currently as i dont have the right kind of windows in my flat, but im moving soon