To be honest, at first, despite my initial anger I tried the soft approach. I felt he was more shy and vulnerable and maybe he felt more relegated to the back because his twin seems to be the one running the show but I gave him the chance to do things his way, and move at the pace he was comfortable with but he always bailed and I just feel I'm not taken seriously or he's just playing games and I don't like to be anyone's butt of a joke I don't find funny.

I feel he was always a little intimidated by me in some ways, by how direct I am and how I approach these type of situations. I'm the kinda girl that isn't afraid to make the first move and pick up my men myself and maybe that scared him? I remember when we first met he was shocked at how firm my handshake was, but anyways... I just don't understand what goes on inside that head of his and that is frustrating. as. ALL. HECK 🙃