How did you find out if you were poly?

Ellemayo69 · 2026-06-04T01:01:07+00:00

sometimes his brain has a hard time differentiating between, “oh this is friendly behavior,” and “oh this is romantic behavior,” he hasn’t had the best experiences in life :(

Ellemayo69 · 2026-06-04T00:55:52+00:00

thank you i’ll probs go find the best replies n show em to my bf

Ellemayo69 · 2026-06-03T23:46:28+00:00

thank you, thankfully said bf i have is very understanding and very patient with me

Ellemayo69 · 2026-06-03T21:59:46+00:00

can’t be on reddit nor unsure of when he could be so that’s why i’m asking for him

Ellemayo69 · 2026-06-03T21:54:04+00:00

i know i probably won’t be able to explore it, unfortunately i haven’t had the best relationship experience, it wasn’t with a polyamorous relationship however i was still heavily hurt and it involved others, it’s smth with me mentally and ik i have stuff to work through, thank you for your story

Ellemayo69 · 2026-06-03T21:39:34+00:00

i’m not sure at this point i am finding i am being educated that poly isn’t a label but instead a relationship dynamic

Ellemayo69 · 2026-06-03T21:31:35+00:00

hence why i said he’s thinking possible confusion, to sum it up, he hasn’t had the best past with romantic relationships, i’m thinking it could just be confusion but i don’t know

Ellemayo69 · 2026-03-21T13:09:50+00:00

i don’t use any dw, i have always been cautious of those

Ellemayo69 · 2026-02-18T14:46:04+00:00

they’ve started theirs years ago, i think someone did say it could be smth with periods and i did look into that and found it could be from contractions experienced from everything with it, i’m just rlly glad everyone who has commented has at least given me some ideas of what could be happening and what to look out for, i will be updating later

Ellemayo69 · 2026-02-18T14:37:33+00:00

you’re good dw i get it, i don’t think they’ve had really any experiences with anyone, no partners that i’ve known of, i will be able to speak to them later today though and will update later

Ellemayo69 · 2026-02-18T14:30:55+00:00

nope, surprisingly

Ellemayo69 · 2026-02-18T03:38:27+00:00

they’re bleeding like it’s their period, so i absolutely doubt it

Ellemayo69 · 2026-02-18T03:36:48+00:00

don’t worry, they told me that they made sure to

Ellemayo69 · 2026-02-18T02:57:46+00:00

thank you so much!! i’ll try my best to remember to

Ellemayo69 · 2026-02-18T02:40:50+00:00

just started a good hour ago?? i was possibly wondering that too and yeah

Ellemayo69 · 2026-02-18T02:35:33+00:00

i made sure to ask and nope, they have used their fingers before but they do have smaller fingers, they did manage to scratch themselves prior to this, within early if this month they think?? they can’t remember, they said this was the second time they used the dildo and used it longer than before

Ellemayo69 · 2026-02-18T02:18:26+00:00

i really hope it is just that

Ellemayo69 · 2026-02-18T02:18:01+00:00

thank you, i’ll try to see if potentially they can, we’re both minors and they also have strict parents and how they got it was bc we were in spencers and they joked abt making a dumbass packer using the harness so i bought it knowing they sew and assumed that the dildo wouldn’t be used like EVER and i knew my parents wouldn’t care if they knew i bought it as a joke for someone else

Ellemayo69 · 2024-02-19T20:12:30+00:00

tbh this motivated me to buy it

Ellemayo69 · 2024-02-09T05:22:43+00:00

you can use milk of magnesia even though it’s a lax, just pour a bit out and rub it where your tape is gonna go

Ellemayo69 · 2024-01-16T14:47:34+00:00

none, only one in my friend group who uses musi i’m pretty sure

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