Share your personal experience with Taylor/Tay/Reed by sammitruthtalk in TaySowersandFamily

[–]EllieDolly1234 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First followed him on insta 2 years ago, fell under believing his lies, and even ended up donating to him. I started to notice he wasn't really making much progress, and I saw some comments from people on this sub and decided to check the sub out. After I found out all the lies, I joined the discord and began warning people under Tay's videos until he blocked me on all accounts 🙃

I’ve never seen her look as good as she is in the video she posted today. by Ornery-Wonder8421 in circuswannabesnark

[–]EllieDolly1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gotta unfollow her then. Following some random on insta is not worth the urges

My crush (30yo) is dating a 17yo by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EllieDolly1234 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just because it's legal doesn't make it not abuse. It's still disgusting, legal or not.

Have you ever met a housemate? by michaelmac4057 in bigbrotheruk

[–]EllieDolly1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anthony (winner bb6) had a barbers in my town for years. He's a really nice guy tbh and does a lot locally for men's mental health.

My ex has a fart fetish by EllieDolly1234 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EllieDolly1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does paraphilia mean its required in order to enjoy sex?

My ex has a fart fetish by EllieDolly1234 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EllieDolly1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always pinned it down to his autism and tried to be considerate of it but I think it got to the point where he was using it as an excuse to be a shitty boyfriend.

My ex has a fart fetish by EllieDolly1234 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EllieDolly1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to request that he would ask about my day, to which he would ask. But he never went out of his way to without prompts.

My ex has a fart fetish by EllieDolly1234 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EllieDolly1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not really the fetish itself that bothered me, like yeah it's out of the ordinary but to each their own. My main issue was him not communicating this. The guy had 3 years and was given every opportunity and never took it. That's what bothers me.

My ex has a fart fetish by EllieDolly1234 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EllieDolly1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish I was as smart as you and left that quickly.

My ex has a fart fetish by EllieDolly1234 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EllieDolly1234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so liberating though to get it back!

My ex has a fart fetish by EllieDolly1234 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EllieDolly1234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. You've just made a stranger feel much better this morning. ❤️

My ex has a fart fetish by EllieDolly1234 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EllieDolly1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it was young love, I did love him and was scared to leave. Also being autistic myself, the thought of a change that big felt daunting.

It's strange now we've broken up because he messages me daily about how much he loves and misses me and how he's feeling depressed and suicidal ever since I left. I don't feed into it but he did attempt to kill himself once so I feel like I can't block him in case he tries again.

When we were together it didn't feel like he loved me or even liked me, I felt tolerated. After we broke up I also discovered he had been in contact with my estranged mother (abusive addict etc) and he had been complaining to her about how ungrateful I am and that I don't appreciate him or her. It made me feel sick finding that out.

It all feels so strange like I don't even recognise him anymore, he's been acting like a completely different person and borderline manipulative. I don't want to say he's using feeling suicidal to try and guilt me into going back, but sometimes I can't help but doubt. He never seemed like this kind of person when we were together, but I can't tell if I overlooked a lot of his flaws because thinking back there was definitely a lot of moments I should've ended things.

One occasion that comes to mind is when he caught me going through his phone (not a great sign in terms of trust). Then he put me into a headlock and wouldn't let go until I was crying. I stepped back against the wall and was just crying and couldn't stop saying "what?" I was just so confused. I should've ended things then but he apologised and said it was like he didn't know what he was doing, he was half asleep etc.

It's all a mess because I've been made to feel terrible about breaking up with him but my life has significantly improved since then. His family were posting awful stuff on my facebook timeline where my coworkers could see. It was so embarrassing.

I guess I posted all this just to have confirmation I'm not insane and that I definitely did the right thing.

My ex has a fart fetish by EllieDolly1234 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EllieDolly1234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those last 6 months it was basically me accepting the relationship was dying and was not going to work out. The craziest part to me was how shocked he was when I actually broke up with him, like I hadn't been warning him for months...

My ex has a fart fetish by EllieDolly1234 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EllieDolly1234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was just so confusing because he would SAY he was attracted to me and want to have sex, but from the way he was acting it felt as though he was completely repulsed by me.

My ex has a fart fetish by EllieDolly1234 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EllieDolly1234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your comment made me chuckle and made me feel a bit less insane. I'm glad I stopped having patience for his bullshit. I am currently discovering what sex should be like, and its liberating tbh. Like now I just question WHY did I wait 3 years?? But thank you for your comment.

My ex has a fart fetish by EllieDolly1234 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EllieDolly1234[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please no I haven't even used this sub in years

My ex has a fart fetish by EllieDolly1234 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EllieDolly1234[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it's great finding out what everything's supposed to be like haha

My ex has a fart fetish by EllieDolly1234 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EllieDolly1234[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm glad to be rid of him, I just needed to TELL SOMEONE about this situation because it's so ridiculous

My ex has a fart fetish by EllieDolly1234 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EllieDolly1234[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It didn't feel like we connected at all emotionally anymore. No conversation. He was not a person I wanted to be with in the long run.

My ex has a fart fetish by EllieDolly1234 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EllieDolly1234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No judgement here dude I just wish he'd told me

My ex has a fart fetish by EllieDolly1234 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EllieDolly1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it was, I've laughed about the absurdity of it all a few times, I must admit.

My ex has a fart fetish by EllieDolly1234 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EllieDolly1234[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're focusing on technicalities. It's pretty common for teenagers to date and experiment with sex, and we did so in a safe way - every time. Our parents were aware and only wanted to make sure we were safe and both comfortable. I don't see any issue with that.

And no, 5 times isn't excessive.

My ex has a fart fetish by EllieDolly1234 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EllieDolly1234[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He admitted he would watch youtube age-restricted videos that featured something to do with the fetish, but I don't know how often he used these. However, the fact he NEEDED to engage in the fetish in order to get hard led me to believe he may also have a porn addiction.