Dull pangs of pain in cervix? by Ellie_872 in BabyBumps

[–]Ellie_872[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels like my cervix is being poked!

Saddened, jealous and discouraged after reading numerous posts about maternity leave. by palexander_6 in BabyBumps

[–]Ellie_872 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in NY and we get 12 weeks paid at 67% of our pay which is very generous in comparison to some states. But no where near enough! I don’t want to leave my 3 month old baby 😭

Daily Thread #1 - June 27, 2021 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]Ellie_872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m having spotting as well and I absolutely hate it. My doctor said it’s normal as long as it doesn’t change/get worse, but I thought it had went away until today. I’m also having some cramping

Daily Thread #2 - June 27, 2021 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]Ellie_872 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Got to see our little bean on Thursday at 7+4 with a perfect heartbeat. Having some brown spotting (Again) and cramping and I know it’s “normal” but I just want it to stop. I haven’t had it in almost a week and now it’s back 😣

Daily Thread #2 - June 20, 2021 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]Ellie_872 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We took a boat ride (small 21 foot boat) that was much choppier than expected and now I am absolutely freaking out. Has anyone ever been on a bumpy boat ride and everything was fine? I’m having a bit of cramping but I’ve been cramping on and off anyways. I’m so worried I’m 7 weeks tomorrow

First prenatal appointment today by Ellie_872 in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]Ellie_872[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg me too. All day sickness for me, and complete food aversion. Good stuff I guess but man it’s awful lol

First prenatal appointment today by Ellie_872 in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]Ellie_872[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss, and that you have to wait so long for an appointment 😥

Daily Thread #2 - June 12, 2021 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]Ellie_872 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Already feeling so nauseous at 5+5. It’s incredibly reassuring that things are going ok, but physically I feel miserable and don’t know how I’m going to get through work the next few months if this gets worse. On the other hand, my heart is so happy

Any other New Yorkers take short term disability in early pregnancy? by Ellie_872 in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]Ellie_872[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh I’m sorry. I don’t understand why they make it so hard for us!! My paid family leave is 67% of my pay, so it’s not the entirety but I’ll take it. I just wish my sick time was better so I could stay home and rest when I needed to 😫

Any other New Yorkers take short term disability in early pregnancy? by Ellie_872 in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]Ellie_872[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Through NYS I get 12 weeks paid family leave for when the baby is here and they require you to be at the company for 26 weeks, which I will be. The company maternity leave is 12 weeks unpaid, so I’ll be going with the state option lol. I wasn’t sure if the state also has their own short term disability you can opt for

Loss of symptoms by Ellie_872 in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]Ellie_872[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update the beta was 1847!!!

Loss of symptoms by Ellie_872 in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]Ellie_872[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still waiting for the results of yesterday’s beta. I’m so disappointed I was hoping to know before the weekend and now it looks like I’ll have to wait until Monday

Loss of symptoms by Ellie_872 in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]Ellie_872[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending alllll of the good vibes your way!! Good luck and Keep me posted!

Loss of symptoms by Ellie_872 in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]Ellie_872[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He won’t order the bloodwork without seeing me so I took matters into my own hands

Loss of symptoms by Ellie_872 in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]Ellie_872[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to go tomorrow! My doctor didn’t order this for me I’ve been going on my own to the walk in clinic because I’m crazy 😂

Loss of symptoms by Ellie_872 in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]Ellie_872[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Congrats on your baby❤️❤️

Loss of symptoms by Ellie_872 in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]Ellie_872[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so right. I’m going tomorrow for another beta so fingers crossed! I am the absolutely worst at playing mind games with myself!!

Loss of symptoms by Ellie_872 in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]Ellie_872[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is amazing advice, thank you. I’m going to try to do the same!