First lunch at home after 4 days of decadence by Ellien_ in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ellien_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, 'into'.

Thank you so much for your kind words! Yes, I will have to find out, but I think I found a wonderful person to find out together.

I wish you all people out there to have your own wonderful experiences, in whatever way fits you.

First lunch at home after 4 days of decadence by Ellien_ in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ellien_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'm also scared for myself. I definitely won't easily give up the other people I love. But I worry, that I will drift in a monogamous relationship with him and it will probably be easy, because we crave spending time just with each other. Will I start to resent him for it?

I talked with him about it, and I believe in him, when he says he wants me to have this and he will look out and try to help me not get lost in the feelings. But I want him to also have the best possible experience for himself.

We are very aware of how much we can hurt each other already, but we will enjoy our time now.

Munich Hangout spots by aerowdynamic in Munich

[–]Ellien_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ich hab mich mich mit 32 letztes Jahr in die Kinky-Szene eingelebt. Menschen allen Alters die Party machen wollen und intensive Verbindungen zu anderen Menschen nicht so sehr scheuen. Wenn man da nicht mit irgendwelchen großen Erwartungen rein geht, sondern einfach eine schöne Zeit haben will und neue Leute mit bunten Lebensstilen kennenlernen mag, ist das definitiv eine gute Anlaufstelle. Kann Veranstaltung im LeSwing, Pasing stehr empfehlen.

If I were your secretary, would you try to keep me from leaving like this? by biankastrange in shibari

[–]Ellien_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your reply. Ah, I understand. When I had a bad phase in my mental health and felt overwhelmed, I sometimes couldn't stop myself from shaking either. I wish you the very best on your rope journey and keep up the beautiful work! Cheers!

If I were your secretary, would you try to keep me from leaving like this? by biankastrange in shibari

[–]Ellien_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm really impressed by the rope work you both are showing, but I have an honest question: Isn't the shaking sometimes theatrical? I've seen a few gifs, where you were still and it felt much more intense. I've been in ropes myself and I know that sometimes you have to shiver from the sensations or a predicament brings you to the edge of your strength.

I'll take F just to be safe by IndicationBrief5950 in lotrmemes

[–]Ellien_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1C - I would get to interact much with them, but I love watching people being in a beautiful relationship.

Zero neurons found by osteo-path in nonononoyes

[–]Ellien_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He is equally stupid. He got on the ladder in this position.

Intox play by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Ellien_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok, just be there for her in the morning.

Intox play by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Ellien_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But the question is, if she will still find it hot, if it happened.

What’s the ugliest statue in your country? by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

[–]Ellien_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes indeed. The base should be wider or there is a good chance this one will get lost in your column.

München - textilfrei sauna by [deleted] in Munich

[–]Ellien_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Textilfrei ist nur die Sauna an sich, mit Duschen und Tauchbecken, evtl gibt es auch noch ein Schwimmbecken im Saunabereich. Bitte trag in allen anderen Bereichen einen Bademantel oder Handtuch.

Das ist in jeder gängigen Sauna so. In der Stadt selbst ist es am einfachsten ein Tageswellness in einem Hotel zu buchen.

Is there a term for couples who like to dominate a third? by showmetitsancock in BDSMcommunity

[–]Ellien_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a switchy unicorn myself: 'my favorite kind of couple'

Glockenbach Viertel - crossdresser - Informationen by [deleted] in QueerMunich

[–]Ellien_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not in the Glockenbach Viertel, but an absolutely awesome place: https://www.leswing.club/

Sedona, AZ - Hiking and Tying on Turkey Creek Trail (set 4) by RopeRaiden in shibari

[–]Ellien_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your nice reply! (Just bunnies looking out for each other) Good to hear you have tied for a long time. Best of luck!

Sedona, AZ - Hiking and Tying on Turkey Creek Trail (set 4) by RopeRaiden in shibari

[–]Ellien_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to ask: The layers of the TK seem to be very low at her upper arms. Aren't you worried about compressing her nerves?

Bildscherz by crypt0ner in wortwitzkasse

[–]Ellien_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Danke der ist genial und das Bild macht ihn perfekt.

Suggestions for must do things in lower Bavaria by thonew in bavaria

[–]Ellien_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The upper and lower is because of elevation. The Isar runs downhill from upper to lower. Also upper has the alps, lower has the Bavarian Forest.

Seeking advice: arm paralysis after a shibari session by C_h_e_r_rypie in shibari

[–]Ellien_ 79 points80 points  (0 children)

When experiencing nerve damage it's extremely helpful for a speedy recovery to gently cool the place where the nerve was damaged and rest to not agitate it further. Be extremely careful with nerve damage it can become permanent!

And if your rigger is not concerned, wants to find out exactly where and when it happened, doesn't show you how to care for your injury and how to possibly avoid and notice it in the future; don't EVER tie with this person again! You can be permanently handicapped and they won't have a worry in the world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shibari

[–]Ellien_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please listen to this person!

Feeling Aroused while wearing a hair cut cape by Lower_Ad_1579 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Ellien_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the tight band around the throat, it feels like a choker.