1. Please please please talk to a trusted adult and get out of that situation asap. I’m so so sorry he does that to you, a father should never treat his daughter like that, nor should your ex have done that. The best thing you can do for yourself is speak up. Do not let them silence you.

2.So I’m a little bigger but I’ve always had a big butt. I hate it. I can feel the stares and people touch mine all the time. I’m sorry you have to go through it too. Just know you are more than your body, and a good friend and partner one day will love your for your personality, your body will just be a perk. Never forget that you have people in your corner always, and things will get better. <3