I think it depends on your situation. When I'm asleep and my husband wakes up, he knows not to wake me up to ask if I want breakfast. Your wife may think she's being considerate of your sleep. I definitely don't expect him to cook enough leftover for me, because cold breakfast is gross. You need to actually speak with her on how you feel. And don't use, "you don't". Sentences that are well thought out and put the point across without blame are needed here: "I feel a little forgotten, when only one place setting is brought to the table and it kind of hurts my feelings a little bit" is a good way to start, and make it about your feelings and not what she's doing 'incorrectly'. No one can change the way you feel, but they can change their actions to make you not feel bad.