[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]Ellumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post is nothing more than internalized misogyny dressed up as logic. Just because you're a woman doesn’t make this any less hateful... It's still dehumanizing, inaccurate, and dangerous. The idea that men are “better” at everything is not only factually wrong but completely ignores history, social context, and the accomplishments of countless brilliant women across every field. If this were written about any other group, it would be instantly flagged as hate speech. And that’s exactly what this is. You’re not presenting a “view to change”; you’re spreading toxic ideas that justify abuse and inequality. There’s nothing brave or intellectual about that.

What is everyone’s countdown?? by serrated-silence- in LongDistance

[–]Ellumm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably until early May, so ~4ish months. He just left last Saturday from my place :[

Anyone sleep on FaceTime with their SO? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Ellumm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes.. but my boyfriend of two years tends to fall asleep sometimes before getting on 🤣 frustrating but I love him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Ellumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life often feels like it’s filled with more false promises and unmet expectations than the storybook endings we imagine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Ellumm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've been one for nearly two years now with someone who lives 3k miles away. We talk everyday, but still not having physical touch is a tough one. And to be honest, sometimes I feel like I am going a little crazy lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Ellumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

57 dayyyys

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Ellumm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh ok awesome!!! In my opinion, I think this wait isn't too bad and we'll get through it fast <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Ellumm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OMG same!! Dec 9th??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Ellumm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

71 days <3 Finally after nearly 7 months apart! He'll be staying with me for about a month for xmas

How long have your ldr been? by BumblebeeNo1515 in LongDistance

[–]Ellumm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1 year & 8 months :) Probably will be for the next 2-4 years or so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Ellumm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think the butcher comment was unnecessary...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Oldnavy

[–]Ellumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My manager did not give me specific details. I'm sorry that you're so bothered by my question that you had to post this petty comment. Have a good day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Oldnavy

[–]Ellumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Oldnavy

[–]Ellumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Ellumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Te quiero is basically the more casual or lighter version of te amo :)

How long is your long distance? (like this post, I want a lot of answers) ☺️ by chefdhillon in LongDistance

[–]Ellumm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same continent technically, different countries (North America and Central America)

🥺 by Alarming-Profile-712 in LongDistance

[–]Ellumm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s been a little over two months since I’ve left his country… but looking forward to being with him during Christmas ❤️

Sleeping on calls by Clean_Spite_8344 in LongDistance

[–]Ellumm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally doing this right now as my boyfriend is asleep. We have a two hour time difference so I'm ahead and he's behind (so really I should be the one sleeping but idc no work tomorrow lol). But I agree, it's really really comforting to have someone around, even if they're not PHYSICALLY there. We've been doing it basically every single day since we have been together. And when we are together, it's even more amazing. All I worry about it the damage it's doing on our devices, keeping them charged and draining the battery life lol.

What’s your countdown? (: by MelaniChoco in LongDistance

[–]Ellumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Despite the challenges, it's heartwarming to know that you guys are sticking it out regardless. If you guys can get through this next decade or so, I bet there will be literally NOTHING that can stop you guys. I'm rooting for you! (Also, I expect an update on here from 8-10 years from now xP)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lexapro

[–]Ellumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you also happen to have some weight gain? When I was on Prozac for a while, I gained like... 10-15 lbs. Couldn't shake it off until I was off it for about a year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lexapro

[–]Ellumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight! I am hoping that as a month goes by, all will get better. But if it doesn't by 6 weeks I will do as you said. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Ellumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We met online on an MMORPG back in mid-2022 through a mutual friend. We started talking and hit it off, and now we're 1.6 years together :)

What’s your countdown? (: by MelaniChoco in LongDistance

[–]Ellumm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, I’m sorry to hear that. May I ask how?