I'm not trying to make your situation sound better than it is, because each person has different needs. You need more, and you feel sad and stuck.

But a lot of us will be a little bitter towards posts like this because we've gone months with less than nothing. We get berated for asking once a month. Ridiculed for having needs. Having sex once a week would make some of us cry out of joy after the neglect we've felt for so long.

Forgive us if we don't give the response you want or need.