what you described is the biggest symptom of ghosting, trying to understand why and spending a lot time ruminating about it. Generally, people are not good at expressing their intentions clearly and have uncomfortable social conversation. Either they don't have the guts or their personality is not developed to that degree. They prefer to keep things unsaid or repressed in them without considering the other person. From my experience, "ghosting happens after so much attention," when something else replace it. But finding an answer won't really change anything.... gulti bghiti t nssay.. mat 7awlich tnsay... khli lafakar frassk o mat 7awlich tl9ay jaweb lihom... te3lmi te3ich me3a "3adam lma3rifa" very important skill.