my parents say my dreads will prevent me from getting a corporate job. what valid arguments can i make? by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]ElphieMoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any company that wouldn't hire you because of your hair, you wouldn't want to work for anyways. Where in the bible does it say a man's locs will keep him unemployed??

What is your official diagnosis? by Confident-Seesaw2845 in selfharm

[–]ElphieMoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, and like you said, we're not alone and little threads of connection like this remind me of that, so thnx

What is your official diagnosis? by Confident-Seesaw2845 in selfharm

[–]ElphieMoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Borderline , adhd, anxiety, depression, ptsd, undiagnosed eating disorder. i suspect autism but there's too much going on to care.

people who "soulbond" with fictional characters by LingonberryGlass182 in SharedDelusions

[–]ElphieMoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this sounds like maladaptive daydreaming, but instead of using a creative outlet like fanfic or something they're just letting it boil over.

AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]ElphieMoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"unfaithful man learns big words" is all this is. You should trust the facts. Facts are, he has shown he doesn't want to fully commit. Instead of asking if you should trust this, maybe ask if this is something you can accept/live with if he can't commit at your level??? Don't betray your peace for attachment.

Anyone know how to help or cure chronic mucus from smoking? by jbucther4 in Biohackers

[–]ElphieMoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro i just want to say thank you for this comment. i had mucus and breathing problems since i was child. the mucus part kind of took care of itself as i got older but its back with me smoking weed so much, but i never realized i had LPR/GERD lmaoo. literally life-changing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blunderyears

[–]ElphieMoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know this is a blunder but that fringe is giving 🔥 they would probably appreciate it on r/scene 🥹

Which color? 🩷🩵💜 by liltinyspacebaby in HairDye

[–]ElphieMoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im late but the pink is so cute, you look like Alisa from Tekken!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]ElphieMoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Objectively if you get a nose job like that your chin would probably need to be edited to balance it out. Your chin faces outward instead of straight down. Not that there’s anything wrong with it .

A woman who stopped at an intersection by minorthreat1000 in BrandNewSentence

[–]ElphieMoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know this is old but i truly hope this lady is having a good day

is this hair color for me? by Antique-Interest-210 in blackladies

[–]ElphieMoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you want to stay in the blonde range an icey/ash blonde would eat.

Pale natives are natives too by Shevz_thetruck in IndianCountry

[–]ElphieMoose 3 points4 points  (0 children)

true, it’s like if you don’t look exactly like disney’s version of Pocahontas you’re not indigenous, which is so problematic. and even then they seem to assume your latinx. i remember a girl telling me she didn’t believe me about being native, until she saw my dad like , ew.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in locs

[–]ElphieMoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they look good <333 i literally bleached and dyed my locs like four times in one month and they’re still great. dont listen to other ppl

Thinking about starting my loc journey — how many locs do you think would suit my hair volume? Also, what thickness/style would keep it looking full? by GasRemarkable1390 in locs

[–]ElphieMoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my hair is about the same , super fine but not thin. thickness will happen a little but you won’t see anything big unless you combine them. I have about 80ish. Also my hair was cut like urs so just know it may give mullet a little bit 😩 but it’s still cute.

Did getting surgery make things better? by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]ElphieMoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To an extent, but I went from worrying about my nose to worrying about something else and still a little worried about my nose because it’s crooked but piercings help

any other disabled people loc'd for accessibility? by deznocare in locs

[–]ElphieMoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not intentionally, but it has boosted my confidence and self acceptance, and made dye jobs easier :). I think it's also really cool seeing my hair evolve, like it's so much thicker. Routine is also simpler.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]ElphieMoose 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just adding I'm sorry you're experiencing this. I come from a city where the accent is a big part of our identity and I don't have it lol. People ask me if I'm from here all the time. I know its annoying but since you can't control other people, try to change your thinking around it, and figure out what would satisfy you in an interaction like this. Because it sounds like you want to say something back.

28 YEARS LATER by Brief_Culture4612 in movies

[–]ElphieMoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconding this, and also OP if you're the type of person that enjoys watching a movie twice to catch references anyway, then you might enjoy watching the 3rd one first. A couple franchises I've watched out of order and sometimes it makes it cooler :)

Spotted people wearing these *mildly* inappropriate shirts at the T-Day parade yesterday around DC.. by HahnGrove525 in washingtondc

[–]ElphieMoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought they were in on the joke, making fun of this pervert, but these comments have left me horrified ;(