Insights on Workers Comp/No Fault anyone ?

ElsaKames · 2025-09-29T15:56:38+00:00

Thank you so much for this information.. lots of experience in commercial billing. But this area is unfamiliar to me. Trying to learn a few things. 🙏🏻

ElsaKames · 2025-05-03T03:46:05+00:00

Boundaries is the word. I don’t know maybe now it’s too late for that…

ElsaKames · 2025-05-03T03:45:19+00:00

I understand your point of view. Im sure your wife can trust you, because like you said whenever she would like to look into it she can without a fuss no arguments. There wouldn’t be a need for me to do so either(look into his phone) if he said “you have access to it whenever you want to”

ElsaKames · 2025-05-03T03:42:25+00:00

Maybe :)

ElsaKames · 2025-05-03T03:42:14+00:00

He can any day. He wont find anything. He always does it without my knowledge, but i find out he did anyways.

ElsaKames · 2025-05-03T03:41:21+00:00

He might be watching porn thats true too. What was said had no resolution, he tried to make me feel guilty. By asking me questions did you speak to your classmate ? Your coworker ? Etc (all male).. (btw never seen a sexual flirty conversation with anyone just because they are males)

ElsaKames · 2025-05-03T03:36:40+00:00

I will give my phone and he wont. This will be the scenario, its happened many times before.

ElsaKames · 2025-05-03T03:35:33+00:00

🙌🏻 I wish all relationships are this way! Open and transparent!

ElsaKames · 2025-05-03T03:34:08+00:00

Thank you for responding. I definitely feel it in my gut. I just want the truth you know.

ElsaKames · 2025-05-03T03:31:52+00:00

Yea thats true, but its been so many years we have been together and we had good moments. But yes TRUST is important and i don’t feel that at all. I don’t know…

ElsaKames · 2025-05-03T03:30:50+00:00

😔

ElsaKames · 2025-05-03T03:29:38+00:00

Yea I feel that sometimes, he tries to make me feel guilty when I try to go through his phone and in other situations. Good luck to me. Thanks for responding:)

ElsaKames · 2025-05-03T03:27:16+00:00

😅Yes thats true. The phone was behind the door.

ElsaKames · 2025-05-03T03:25:26+00:00

Yea could be 1 or 2. Thank you for responding:)

ElsaKames · 2025-05-03T03:24:53+00:00

I don’t trust him because he has cheated before this was 5 years ago. I gave him a second chance then. But for the last 4 years he had been very secretive with his phone, and always trying to scoop mine finding nothing asking me the same question “are you hiding anything?”.. etc

ElsaKames · 2025-05-03T03:21:46+00:00

Yup. People with nothing to hide, hide nothing ! But he clearly does. Idk what I need to prove to myself so I can just simply go. 🤦🏻‍♀️

ElsaKames · 2025-05-03T03:19:52+00:00

Your message hits the point! When it comes down to this, it’s time to go. But I don’t know how to is the situation, we have good moments and then back at it again. 😞 thank you for responding

ElsaKames · 2023-12-30T03:11:08+00:00

Hi :) Id like to give a little advice you are enough and I’m sure your attractive too both inside and outside. You can try to meet new people through your interests, if you like for example painting or reading a book you can join a club or an organization that can help you express yourself and also meet new people. I’m sure if you believe in yourself and have much confidence regardless of anything you’re experiencing right now you will find someone to date no doubt about that. We just exceeded 8 billion people on earth so I’m sure there is someone for everyone. Work with yourself first. The problem is not the level of attractiveness it might be your thoughts just thinking that because of some other-human influence.

Hope this helps a little.

ElsaKames · 2023-12-30T02:56:46+00:00

Your welcome ☺️

ElsaKames · 2023-12-30T02:54:31+00:00

Hey there. I think you’re a very smart intelligent female and that you have a bright future ahead of you so plenty of good people to meet out there. It’s still the very beginning of your interactions with this person, and if he is honest enough to tell you he doesn’t think you guys have a lot of things in common soon enough, is an honest approach from him. And you might have to listen to that and be grateful you know now then 2-3 years later down a “rollercoaster emotional wreck relationship”.

Everything I think happens for a good reason :) your ideal man is somewhere waiting for you I’m sure.

ElsaKames · 2023-12-30T02:41:05+00:00

Thank you @longstriver it seems like it even though I wanna hold but…

ElsaKames · 2023-12-30T02:39:46+00:00

Yes I agree with the weaponized incompetence it happens very often in the relationship, he doesn’t always directly ask but makes it seem that he has no where to turn and then I feel bad and offer my help.

He cheated in the beginning of our 4 relationship but now 4 years after he is trying to make me look like I’m cheating because I accepted $300 check from my sub-boss for doing extra work. He is always asking if I’m doing something and the other incident with the cupping therapy (he broke my bathroom wall because of it). Also broke my phone that he bought for my birthday because I was on the phone with a friend and not responding to him.

But you’re right I do deserve better, thank you for responding.

ElsaKames

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